Well I now have to close the chapter on this girl that I was dating for a month because she stopped coming to work and she stopped keeping in touch with me. Now I finally know where I stand with her so it's time for me to move on with a new girl.

I admit I was hesitant at first to go to this rave but my friend kept pushing me to go because he says it's really easy to hook up with girls there if u know what you're doing. Here's the problem.... I don't. At least when it comes to girls in the rave scene.

I have no idea whatsoever how to open up anything with the girls there so any advice on the best way to go about this tomorrow would help. I mostly have no idea what to say to her or how to escalate anything with her when opening

Any help is good help so throw me any tips you guys possibly can in order to get anything done tomorrow. I wanna hook up with a girl tomorrow to help me get over this girl....

Glad to hear you are moving on man. Don't get so attached next time.


On picking a girl up at the rave:

1) wear a fun outfit. Don't be afraid to dress crazy. Stop by the store and get some things that glow or things that light up.

2) when you get to the rave just try to have fun.

3) find some girls and get close to them. make eye contact, smile, have fun.

4) If they aren't grinding up on you already because you are dressed like a champ and having a good time, and they are horny and high, make a move. Ask them if they have seen the dj before, where they got their glow sticks, ect..

5) transition into dancing with them

6) right before you think you are going to reach the climax of dancing with her, take her to another part of the venue where you can hear each other. Get her number or a kiss. If you think she will come home with you act on this.

words of advice: don't be afraid to touch her, especially when you are dancing. You can basically have clothed sex with a woman while you are dancing, touching her anywhere. Just pay attention to her response to your advances. Also, just have fun man.

sounds good my man. Hope this all works out tonight. thanks!