There's this girl in my university that i started to talk with about 1 month ago, she has a "boyfriend" but she doesn't have anything official in her facebook or talks about him with me and someone told me they were seeing each other for some time.

The thing is i'm pretty sure she is attracted to me and loves my attention. I noticied two of her friends looking at me a lot sometimes to see if i'm looking at her (both with boyfriends) so i approached her a few day later and got her alone last week when she was with one of her friends to have a bigger "impact".

When i approached her i'm pretty sure the smile on her friend face was a good thing since she tried to suppress it, i asked her out and she used the "boyfriend" as an excuse so i told her that i didn't believe she really has a boyfriend and were just seeing another guy, she tried to convince me that she "talks" about her boyfriend but i just kind of ignored it and showed her that i was fine with that, about 4s later we both went different ways and i'm pretty sure i was able to show her that her "rejection" didn't have any effect on me.

She sometimes would stare at me in classes and now even after one week with no contact she still keeps looking even more at me when i "can't" notice her staring but has yet to try to make any kind of contact with me.

So guys what do you think about this? most of the time i'm with 1~2 girl by my side/(they both have a boyfriend/husband) i'm confident/a bit popular in my class and this week she saw me with a different pretty girl. I will not keep chasing this girl but i can't help but be curious about this.(she never really answered my invitation, just talked about having a boyfriend, with her i get the feeling like when a girl is playing hard to get and wants you to chase however she has a boyfriend).

This girl also is more "reserved" with guys than the usual girls at least here where i live and i'm sure i'm the only guy in my class that is able to talk/joke with her

Playfully invite her out again "cmon it's gonna be fun ur coming with me and we're gonna do x." Assume she is going to say yes. If she hesitates, just assume it's on and finalize the plans with her in a fun manner.

In this situation isn't better to keep ignoring her a little bit more? yesterday through the SPAM group of my class after 1 week with no contact she kind of tried to tease me subtly to try and get my attention and i think she is a bit full of herself right now after my invitation

The funny thing is when i approached her and she said she had a boyfriend i used something like "i have a dog too, three, actually" (always wanted to use this one) and after ignoring her answer pretty much told her she doesn't have a real boyfriend with a smile on my face and i even made a point of saying till tomorrow when she was looking at my back to show that i wasn't affected by her

There is a question women always ask themselves..

And that question is " If this guy is so good with women, why is her pursuing me!?" And in this case she even has a boyfriend.

Its an insecurity thing that most women deal with when in the face of a guy that's actually good with women. Now if you aren't good with women, they'll conclude that " he must not be good with women, so he's just trying to get me" and they'll lose attraction for you.

So I ask you.. Why this girl? A university if filled with other hot girls.. Why this girl, the girl with the " boyfriend" couldn't you just get with someone else more attraction and cool?

If you can answer this question truthfully the girl can be yours.. Even if this truth is " Look.. I don't usually approach women, but i feel comfortable around you. I approached you. I feel like this is my shot; you're cute, you're fun and best of all we already have some level of chemistry, even if its mild... etc. etc."

Most women are just looking for a honest pitch coming from the heart.. Its get them.

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She is one of the cutest girl in my class along with 3~4, there are other pretty girls but i know that if i try most of them will be easy to get because even though i'm not good looking, i take a lot of care with my appearence, i can be or at least pretend to be very confident, i have a body a bit above average and good grades. So i can't help but find them a bit boring and i'm pretty sure one of these cutest girls (with boyfriend too) is interested in me but i don't think she is aware of that.

The reason this one interests me is because she is more "reserved" and i kind of knew as soon as i saw her that she would be harder to get (didn't even imagine she had a "boyfriend" cuz her facebook showed nothing about him), besides this i admit i'm a cocky little bastard so a normal or shy girl probably wouldn't have a lot of chemistry with me

This girl is the only one that i kind of went out of my way to flirt with (i believe she knows this) and i flirted a lot using my eyes/smile, however now after asking her out and ignoring her for about a week i'm not sure how to approach or if i shoud approach right now

Sorry if i may seem too cocky for a new guy here and if my english is a bit weird (i'm from Brazil and 19yrs old) but i tried explain the situation as clearly as possible

A girl feels privileged to be in the company of a man who is good with women.

Ideally should have pressed for the date in the first interaction. That didn't happen. The longer you wait to engage her again the harder it may be and the more desperate it may appear.

Also the more you think about this one girl the more apprehension you will feel about proposing to get her out w/ you. Don't get too in your head.

Play it calm and normal, like it is the most normal thing in the world for you to be around women and to have them out with you; "You never answered me, we're going out on Tuesday bring condoms and skip the panties." Ok maybe not that forward, but get her out w/ you.

So in the meantime, meet more girls. There are more girls than just the ones in the school. Go out and meet them.

This particular girl will feel that you don't care what her answer is when you approach with this genuine 'i don't give a shit' demeanor. It will inherently turn her on.

Yeah you made good point, i should've pressed a bit more for the date however the day before yesterday she kind of teased me a bit to have my attention (SPAM group of my class) and if i ignored her she would know that the lack of contact and what happened last week had an effect on me.

If i go out my way right now to do what you said and talk to her i think she will feel like SHE gave me attention and all she has to do is give me a bit of attention to keep me chasing after her(she probably wants to put me on the "waiting list" after her boyfriend).

That's the main reason right now i'm thinking of keeping little to no contact for a time, i'm pretty sure tomorrow she will stare even more at me to see if i'm going to do anything after what happened.

This girl likes to subtly tease and she knows how to make guys chase her, even though i don't know a lot about her boyfriend, from what i've seen she has more control over their relationship, the main reason she probably is still with him is that they must have been together for only 4~5 month, at most, and he is what a lot of girls would call "handsome".

His game i don't think is better than mine from what i've seen, especially, since he has a lot of girls throwing herself at him since he is good looking and doesn't has to do a lot of work, he knows her way longer than i, their relationship as boyfriend-girlfriend is still new however i still was able to make her feel very attracted to me.

I will keep meeting more girls in the meantime as you said and i know this girl may be giving more trouble than is worth but after everything that i did i can't help but love the "challenge" that i'm having to have her haha.

Cool.
For each girl that you bring into your life, the importance of this school girl in your mind will get lower and lower.