So this is the HB i thought was my onitis, but having been through a vicious break-up before i've managed to get myself back to being myself again in a few short weeks; all females are disposable unless you truly find a good one. I've been freezing out on her for a few days, and basically allowing her to text/call me. She hit me up today after a week or so, and I've been acting nonchalant, and generally not talking too much by keeping myself busy/telling her I'll text her back. We've had three seperate converations via text messaging, and all three I've cut short becuase I have an errand to take care of or need to go somewhere. This clearly annoying her so my questions are

1. How long to continue responding in this manner? I don't want to let the fire die out, but at the same time I am not afraid to lose the girl. I'm playing to win boys
2. Should I use push/pull techniques when texting? if so, which kind would you suggest?
3. If she speaks of being serious or directly asks why am I am acting like a douche, how can I respond by not sounding like an asshole and say FWB is about what I can do SPAM? be direct or indirect?

Just call her and set up a date. Easy.

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