Girl's fake interest, what's the point?



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PostPosted: Wed Apr 02, 2014 12:01 pm 
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Hello dear fieldmates!
Thanks to whole content of this forum and many smart guys I've made some progress in a last few months. The thing is, no matter how much I know, sometimes it's still absolutly impossible to understand women behaviour or psychics. Here's what I've got during last hunt.
I've visited a pub connected with a club, accompanied by a friend. After some beers and watching Martial Arts in pub's TV, I've noticed a nice 3-set. When opened, I was like a typical cool guy that just got back from abroad. I was even talking to the fat one! :D They were laughing all the time saying that it's good they've met me. When my friend tried to say something to the other girl (not the one I had in mind), she ran away to the dancefloor with the fat one (what her name was eh). Friend left home a while later and the blonde girl decided that she wants to stay with me and don't give a damn about dancing tonight. I got a lot of IoI's, she was laughing with our hands em, laced? and when 4 excusers from her studying group tried to even say something to her, she ignored them just like young fancy dogs begging for some bones. In the end she took me to nearest taxi stop, we exchanged numbers, she said she wants to see me again. I could've F-close at one point but just didn't want to, I don't care, happens. I texted her like 4 days later but it's always the same, she doesn't give a shit, she replies with short answers like ,,Maybe some day" ,,Sorry I'm busy" ,,Sorry I have no time" etc. She also never texted or called me first. The fact is, I gave up on her, thanked for the time we've shared and life goes on, but the thing I don't get is WTF? She wasn't really drunk during party so why was she playing this whole game? Besides, she seemed honest talking about seeing me etc. I mean, what's the point? Part of the game I really can't handle... Any ideas my love rhinos? :)

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PostPosted: Wed Apr 02, 2014 1:49 pm 
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Okay... two questions:

1) Why did you wait more than half a week to text her?
2) Why didn't you pull the trigger?

Nightgame is ideal for SNL's (same night lay's) and pulling the trigger.

You must remember that girls go to clubs for two reasons. Dancing and getting picked up.
Really, I believe that. I won't let anyone tell me, that a girl will spend an hour to prepare for a night of clubbing, just for a few drinks.

When you do a successful pickup in a club, if you don't intend to fuck her that night, it's very difficult for her to remember you, if you didn't at least make out with her or bounced her to another spot she's going to forget about you.

That is why I love daygame. 99% of guys don't cold approach during the day. Sure you won't get as much lays as you would doing consistent night game, but if you're not pulling the trigger (ie closing your night sets properly) you might as well do daygame.

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PostPosted: Wed Apr 02, 2014 7:39 pm 
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Thanks for response.
I'd love to try some daygames, but it requires much more self-confidence, and unless it's a party and I'm after a few beers (not drunk, just in party mood), I'm generally shy, a handicap I'm trying to fight with, but it's not easy. Why didn't I close? Maybe the attitude, I went there just to watch the MMA and have some fun, and given 2 seconds to think if I want to close or continue partying, I've just screwed the opportunity. I don't get the whole point, if you have an F-close opportunity and not use it, your rapport falls to 0 and despite all things she's said she doesn't care anymore? Seems stupid... And about the texting, we've shared some boring messages right after the party, and then I've waited for a few days, to does not look like some needy desperate guy, well, didn't work out well eh.

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