So i'll try and keep this short. I'm new to all of this. In fact i'm 24 and just recently discovered there was so much in pua and attracting people. I've taken a few of the tips and they've been wonderful. Kept longer eye contact, being more physical and touching ect.

Anyways at work a month ago a new girl started. I was immediately attracted to her. I used some basic pua techniques and it really enforced our relationship wouldn't have a lot of boundaries. Our relationship is much more established then anyone else there. I was under the impression she liked me. Got her number after a few weeks but sense then things seemed to have been falling apart.. Now we work together but we don't start, have lunch or finish at the same time. Her text messages showed she was enthuiastic so I asked her to hang out after she got off work and now suddenly her response has been lackluster. She told me she was busy and throw me a shit test. Asked why I wanted her number. I played it cool and said she seemed fun and found her accent (british) enchanting. I might have went too far adding that but i've been flirting with most of the new girls so I wanted to be more direct. I guess it was the wrong move because our text messages have been way more one sided (me) and i've only been getting a couple word response where she isn't adding anything to the conversation. When I do see her at work we have a good time together. I don't remember what I used to do in this situation but this is the first girl i've really liked sense college. So any advice from the pros on the next move(s)? Thanks./.

She's cooled off, dude.

And she's keeping it friendly and fun @ work cause she has to, or it'll be uncomfortable.

I'd almost say she was never really into you.

Asking you why you want her number isn't a shit test. She's asking because if it's for romantic reasons, you won't be getting it.

Well I know shes cooled off that's why i'm here.

I'm usually pretty good telling if someone likes me or not. I guess i'll know more the next time I see her.

Previous me would have never asked her out so it would avoid anything awkward at work but i've been swing the bat more and it seems to be getting better results. I would walk away but like I said, I like this girl so I was wondering if there was anything I could do to turn it around.

This was all recent within the last 48 hours and I haven't seen her since. So its early. What would be the pros next move be or would you just walk away?

I never approach women within my work area. It draws too much attention. The same way a girl doesn't like to be labeled ( slut, whore, bitchy, etc ) she doesnt want to be labeled as the girl who just joined a specific work place and has an intimate relationship with a guy off the bat. Very well played though getting her number and being direct that you found her accent enchanting. If you have a slick look to yourself, it would be easier for you guys to keep yourselves secretive, because your look will automatically reinforce her that you have this skill set. Otherwise, I would drop her.. ( or maintain the relationship in case she has cute friends)


Just a small tip for next time: don't wait long to get that phone number.

After a day or two of talking, you should have gotten her number. Waiting almost a month is tricky because you have to keep that sexual tension going for a month and show interest for a whole month until you get her number to escalate things.

Take a big step in, get her number, but then take a step back and pretend it was for work reasons. Then escalate things sexually by asking her to join you for lunch.