So the title speaks for itself. I have been going insane for sometime now. I go out 1-2times a week but after a few rejections my confidence in down the toilet and the night doesnt lead to much. Tried online dating as well with no success. I started lowering my standards but find it annoying whem ugly chicks think they are the cream of the crop.

I know I just have to keep trying but its hard when you have motivation to. I know that if I just broke this obscenely long dry spellI would have the motivation amd confidence to keep getting laid. So what should I do?

Three options. RT, Sex toy or go out.

In regards to "ugly chicks", I had a theory that Hollywood and Porn has put in false ideals in our mind as to what is hot and what is not. Recently, after learning about No Fap and watching Don Jon (good flick), it sort of reinforced my theory as to how the media fries our brains. Not sure if this is applicable to you, but I think it's a good idea to lay off porn and such. Maybe it will change the way you see women.

Regardless, I feel maybe you should work on Inner Game to deal with rejection, expectations, confidence, etc. You can go out all you want, but without the right mindset, you're just another AFC.

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"You ain't accustomed of going through customs. You ain't been nowhere, huh?"

Mr International has given a good answer. With ugly chicks, they know that compared to other HB, they aren't the most pretty, so they compensate in other ways with shields and attitude. In some instances, it is harder to game them because they'll have this shield of suspicion and unless you know how to deflect it, they'll continue to be bitches. As an addition, the absence of fapping boosts testosterone levels which makes you a more confident, energetic and also a more horny guy.

You want to get laid? Thenstop being such a pussy!
Wah! Wah! Do I hear a baby crying?
Your putting up your own barriers. Your goal is not to look for sex or a woman but merely to look for and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.

Don't wait until everything is just right. It will never be perfect. There will always be challenges, obstacles and less than perfect conditions. So what. Excuses, that's all that shit is!

Why the fuck would you lower your standards?

Rejection is not failure, it's another step UP the ladder of success.

Get to work and stop being a lazy piece of shit.

Put in the effort, buff up your online profile, buff up your wardrobe, start working out!

Go where women are. Talk to them. Why be afraid of what a woman will say? Those who attracted to you will react positively! And those who don’t aren't worth listening to anyway.

I bet if your house was on fire, you would have the motivation to figure how to get the fuck out?

Throwing glasses of water isn't gonna fix it!

Sitting around beating your meat to webbernet porn isn't gonna fix your dry spell either.


Tear yourself away from the safe comfort of certainties that are not getting you laid!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

This.

Getting laid is easy. The problem is you. Maybe you're unattractive, maybe you're weak.

Go out, hit on girls. Touch them. Turn them on.

Why the fuck should you lower your standards? Your standards should continue to get higher.

That girl is hot? So what? Does she know who the fuck YOU are? Are you amused with the interaction? If not, drop her.


If you need a fun method to build up confidence (you won't probably get the girl this way, but you'd be surprised...), approach the hottest girl in the club, and while laughing, just say the most horrible things about her possible - tell her she looks like she dressed like up out of a trash can, or that her dress looks like it came from a back alley abortion.

You'll very quickly not care what the fuck a hot girl thinks about you, once you've had some hate you, and some actually be MORE INTO YOU after you're a horrible, abominable person.

And once you've done that, talking to a hot girl normally is nothing.