Hi, So i am newbie in seduction, and i wanted some tips to aproach girls, friday i invited a girl out and she accepted, i felt good, but then i notice she has a boyfriend, and she is not really the person that i want.
She was the first girl i invited to go out and she is from my school, but now i dont know if i should keep my tactic of talking with them IRL, then add facebook, be nice get to know each other and then ask her out if it works... There were some situations so... i had luck and got to know her, otherwise i didnt had the courage to go meet her, the thing is i want to know how to aproach ladies, i am kinda shy, but i can talk about every subject and thats my strongest point... because when they know me things go better. Im average looks, i can be funny ( the good funny way not the bad)

Thanks for your support.

What's your background with women? Are you anxious about approaching them? What have you done with women before? What do you feel you need help with to get a woman? Need more info.

Don't ask out attached women who you have no interest in anyways. Maybe she thinks you're going out as friends, which might not be a bad thing if anxiety with women is one of your sticking points. Get comfortable around them. They love sex and take smelly dumps just like men do. They're human beings.

This is already a good experience: you like a girl and you opened her. That is good. This should give you more confidence for the next girl.

I you don't like her after all and she has a bf already, why waste any time on her? If you do keep investing time in her, and she turns you down eventually, then the other girls will know this. This has a bad impact on your further game.

Now you are the one, that hte girl wants to go out with. This is pre-selection and will have a positive impact on your further game.

Why turn a positive impact into a negative one? Not worth the risk and effort, mate

I liked her in the beginning, talked with her but i am kinda shy, but when i start talking they normally they like to talk with me because i am kinda social, she even said i was funny and she liked to talk with me.. so i had confidence to move, and when she accepted i was glad and proud of myself, but she kinda lied to me.. she had a boyfriend and i talked with her about it, and said i was not going date with her because she already was with a guy and i am not that type of person tat goes out with somebody girlsfriend, so she said she didnt agreed and she wanted to go out with me and keep talking with me, and i said it couldnt be that way, and i said she kinda disapointed me, and she said that wasnt her objective to disapont me and her boyfriend let her know new people and all that crap, i dont know.. i think i will get hurt if i lose time investing in something with her, first i dont like to steal girlfriends, and if she really likes me or something she can broke up with him, that way i could have gone out wth her, ofc i didnt said that i dont want her to broke with her boyfriend because of me... Anyway thank you guys for the help.

I dont considere me as pretty so thats one of the reasons i am kinda shy.

She has a great group of girls, and i really think she told all them i asked her out.. because when i notice like 10 girls were looking to me.. and i dont think it was because i am pretty wich i am not... and they were with her, is this going to be good to me??? She will tell them that i refused the date because she had a boyfriend, will this be good or bad???