I've decided to step up my game and start learning some PUA material after many years of reading about it.

I'm curious, what are some of the main problems that new and older PUA's run into?

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Everyone is going to run into different issues bro.

Some guys run into very little issues or none at all. It all depends upon your nature.

I'm coaching guys multiple times a week, so if i had to pick one common issue it would be everyones issues. Thats approach anxiety and "not knowing what to say".

That is easily corrected with enough practice.

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Maybe you will run into the problem of knowing that not everyone is faithful. You can't control that. I have slept with girls that had boyfriends and that still bothers me to this day. Once you get good, you start really questioning monogamy and all that stuff. But you won't have that problem till you have it.

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Shit i was beginning to feel guilty for thinking the same. Im glad someone else is on the same level

Monogamy dictated by society is a joke until you really do find the right one.

Back to the original topic:

A common problem that a lot of pua have, is emotions. You have to be able to deal with them. Emotions from the women you seduce but also your own emotions, which are the hardest to deal with. In other words, if you are set to seduce, be ready to be seduced yourself. Make sure you can deal with it, that you can detach yourself if things get ugly. And sometimes, things get ugly fast.

cheers!

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I would guess one common problem can be lack of self-awareness and knowing what you do wrong. When I started with PU I was (and can still be) quite agressive and fearless, just walking up to a girl without hesitation, or grab a girl who was walking by and drag her close to me. But even if I had the guts, I never got laid and I had no clue why. Everytime I started talking to a girl I could see how her interest in me faded away in slow motion, and as I was talking to her I was thinking "now she is loosing interest... again. why? what is going on?". Unfortunately, I had no PUA friends who could tell me what I did wrong. I had to figure it out myself, reading things on the web. Today I know that it was due to scarcity, I was a try-hard and unable to tune in on the same energy level as the girl to build rapport. The first step in the right direction was to learn about locking in, from Mystery Method.

The biggest problems that I've handled during PUA are cockblocks and logistics; pre-PUA, screening out drama queens and girls with emotional baggage and deep rooted issues.

If you want a few pointers, here are some:

1. Have standards. Eject from sarging girls who are likely to give you problems later. Even when such girls are down-to-fuck, you're better off not banging them at all.

2. You are the prize. If a girl does or her friends do not behave well around you, walk away. They'll chase, respect your time more, and treat you better.

3. Work on a pattern of success and stick to it. If you're so used to failure, you'll tend to sabotage yourself from succeeding. Hence, condition yourself to one small success after another so you get used to success. Momentum will get you there faster and more efficiently.

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