Yesterday a Hb8 (maybe 9) that is a very smart kind of girl asked me "How do you see me?" We know each other for almost one year.
I tried not to rush the answer because I replied to a similar question to 3 girls by now that I like them and so on, and every time I got blown out. What should I respond?
Hope you understand my english is not so good.

How do you see me?

I'm wondering if this is a language thing then... do you mean 'do you like me'? or 'how do you like me'?

I think what she wanted to say is "What do you feel for me?"

If you like the girl, a nice 'cheeky' reply delivered with a sarcastic grin is not a bad play...

"You're all right I guess "

I'd avoid professing your true feelings for her. Usually a bad play to be really open and direct. Show her instead of telling her... kiss her.

The thing many guys forget to do when it comes to communicating with women is "reading between the lines". Words are just fragments of a feeling someone has; and when dealing with women(who are more likely to make an emotional decision than a man) you have to understand "what does she mean" and look less into what exactly she is saying.

Everything we deal with in life is either a test or a celebration(David Deida).

This is true. And I like to believe the term " Life is a bitch" derived from how similar our relationships with life are with our relationships with women. So women test us because life test us.

Now if you took this question:

" How do you see me"

Which category would it fit in.. Test or Celebration ?

Test of course.

And how do you respond to test? Short, sweet and simple.

" I see you the way that you see me "

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SHort update.
The first answer of mine was: I see you with my eyes of course.
She didn't like the answer. She wanted something more "emotional" probably, to come out of my keyboard.
So the final answer was "I see you as a person that i would enjoy having more time spent together"
Finally I asked her the same question about me. Her reply was: I like spending my time with you,fell secure around you and we can understand ourselves only by looking at each other.
Guess she beat me on that one

She wants you, make a move.

"Good. Let's discuss this over drinks. Yes this is a date."

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Less talking , more moves
Sounds good to me