Lately I've been having random hook ups with different girls and I feel as if I'm starting to get a "player" status. girls I've been gaming have been asking me if all i want is to get into their pants because that's what they heard from others. its getting annoying, is there a way to fix this?

You've been having random hook ups with girls. To actually be a 'player' you have to a be sleeping with these girls to be that. If she knows the other girls have turned you down this is a major DLV. Thats why its best to game girls from far and wide, not ones all know each other. They'll become familar with your lines and routines. Ok so you've gotten a name for yourself. Tell her that you was'nt trying to get into there pants, your looking for the right girl, that you have standards and they dont match up.

Matrix,

Are you managing their expectations? If you make it clear before sex what the nature of the relationship is going to be, you will save yourself headaches in the future. If they know beforehand that you're not down for LTR and they still hop in the sack with you, that's their decision. They have no right, at that point, to call you a player. You're just a strong man who knows what he wants and doesn't mind enjoying all the pleasurable aspects of his female company.

Also, if they're throwing up the player defense, something broke down. Either you didn't clearly disqualify yourself (i.e. they have no idea that you're interested in them) or you were showing IOI's before your target was fully hooked.

Keep in mind, I understand the theory a lot better than the practice so don't take this as a knock. Just my observation. Hope it helps.

lol i'm right there with you, pal.

in my school, i've been branded as "player." not a fun thing. but not to worry.

when a girl asks you if you're only after sex, then that's a shit test. you need to throw a disqualifier/neg.

hb: are you after sex?
pua: sex? hahaha let's slow this down, I barely know you! I don't just give myself out, ya know .

game. set. match.

very cool, thanks for the help and hey if I still have trouble I'll be off at college soon with a fresh start and a whole new set of women. haha

You have to think of why she would be saying this to you.
The biggest issue is per-pressure. You have been hanging out with a lot of girls and other girls notice this.

She is interested in you. Otherwise she would have never said it. She does not want to be like all of the other girls that are around you.

You should DHV yourself which will make her more comfortable. You can further attract her but she will put up massive resistance because of what she already 'knows' about you.

Tell her that you like hanging out with a lot of people and that includes other girls. Continue on with that you respect these people and you would never talk about them like that with other people.

Be serious when you say it. It will show her that even if do 'get into her pants' that she does not have to worry about it. She will not be concerned with what others might potential find out about her because you will not be talking about it.

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Recommended reading list.

Double Your Dating by DD
(This will work on your inner game)

http://www.freewebs.com/xfman/
(This will work on your outer game)