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| nnamdizzle | PostPosted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 9:54 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Thu Jan 31, 2008 9:23 am Posts: 4 AOL: nnamdi247 | | Basically what the topic says. I go to pretty popular bar in my college town around 10 pm which is really noisy but has very fine females. Do you guys have any ideas on some good approaches?
Thanks
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| JSmooth | PostPosted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 4:45 pm | |
| Offline | | Moderator |  | Joined: Sat Oct 20, 2007 6:58 pm Posts: 5702 Location: Nashville | | There really isn't such a thing as the perfect approach although there are other tactics that may work better than others. I really comes down to what suits your personality, and the girls there. I may open a set in that venue with an opinion opener and have success. Someone else may be able to use a direct opener and say something cocky funny, and have their attention. Yet again still someone may use NLP or go strictly caveman!
Shortly after you open you can try and isolate to a quieter area to talk more. Go with what you are comfortable using! _________________ Been around the world twice, Talked to everyone once...
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| gravesRR7 | PostPosted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 5:30 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot |  | Joined: Tue Oct 30, 2007 3:36 am Posts: 338 Location: Cape Cod, MA | | This one is golden:
PUA: "hi, you wanna do a shot with me/us/my buddies"
HB: "sure"
PUA: come back with one shot
HB: "where's my shot?"
PUA: "haha, i'm not going to buy one for you, i just met you, i just asked if you wanted to do one with me"
works very well (credit Wild One)
or a variation where you lead her away from her friends saying "wanna do a shot, okay" and lead her a few feet away. Then grab your shot and go to toast her. with a confused look, say.....'oh, haha, i'm not getting your shot for you, i just wanted you to come over and have one with us"
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| Green_Eyes | PostPosted: Fri Feb 01, 2008 12:49 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Mon Sep 24, 2007 11:10 pm Posts: 83 Location: WV | | Body language for a loud club is good. Just look at a girl grab her hand and start dancing with her. After that pull her aside and talk. You have already kino so things should go very easy if she is interested or the famous opinion openers which i use.
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| masterfeniks | PostPosted: Fri Feb 01, 2008 1:05 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Jan 30, 2008 7:45 am Posts: 13 | | TO be honest - just light kino like a normal person. Follow up with whatever you want.
The most important to do it! =)
I know you will do great next time - just push yourself.
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| Paramour | PostPosted: Fri Feb 01, 2008 1:22 am | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Fri Dec 14, 2007 1:17 am Posts: 152 ICQ: 441265978 Website: http://www.myspace.com/paramour08 Yahoo Messenger: jennly25 AOL: jinx025 | | Graves buddy, that actually works. Except I was the girl..LMAO _________________ " It is not enough to conquer, one must know how to seduce"
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| semenload | PostPosted: Sun Feb 03, 2008 8:08 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Wed Jan 02, 2008 1:46 pm Posts: 12 | | I was often in this situation.
Ensure that you have a paper napkin and a pen handy.
One cute thing I did was do some sign language at her. It helps if you know genuine sign language, but when I did it first I did not know.
You will get her attention and she'll scream at the top of her voice that she does not know what you just said.
This is where you get the pen and paper... and write in block letters "Its too noisy, I just said hi". If she's got a sense of humour, she'd be smiling now.
Now follow through with your usual close routine.
Two things:
Try to get to a quieter corner if you don't wanna end up with a bad throat. Though the loud noise allows you to get kino faster.
Learn sign language. a little if possible. I've always promoted inner game and sign language essentially got me to be confident that I did not need words to communicate my presence.
Keep it real
semenload [ecudes]
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| vegeta | PostPosted: Sun Feb 03, 2008 8:31 am | |
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