So Ive had a situation with a girl. She broke up with her ex about 6 months ago and started chasing me. I let her do most of the casing and didn't blow up her phone or come on to strong. I was aware that she just come out of a long term relationship. She told her friends how into me she was and we hooked up on nights out and she was always all over me. Anyway I think her ex is back in contact and she told me she basically wants to be friends now and nothing more, i'm not to fussed. I just feel I must of take a wrong tern somewhere but I cant see where? I feel I done everything right. she told me her ex told her he is really jealous of me. so he's showing her beta behaviour, I have always been indifferent about her ex when she mentioned him and haven't shown any signs of weakness. My question is why is she going back to him? surely if I done everything right and was that much of a catch in her eyes she wouldn't go back? or is it a case of 2 years of investment with him?

Romantic relationships are an arena where emotions run wild, as do misunderstandings of emotions and attendant accusations of irrationality. Romantic relationships pull for strong emotions because they are attachment relationships. Like children, adults rely on attachment relationships for comfort, security, women base there decisions often on emotion, not logic. I would say he got to her on an emotional level. I.E: Dried, begged, pleaded.

It will likely be short lived, when the reality of the neediness sinks in.

And to girls needy guys are like Wedgies, they just can't pull them out of their ass fast enough and they won’t care who’s looking!

Best advice. FREEZE HER THE FUCK OU!

Live live as the womanizing bastard that you are, she will likely come sniffing around soon enough!

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