Hey guys got a situation I need some advice on I have a cute girl showing interest. Little background info known her a while she was always kinda cold toward me. Then that all changed one day I saw we were both at a birthday party she's like Hey I have something for you I'm like hmm ok kinda puzzeled she gave me an autographed poster of one of my favorite boxers (no idea how she knew I was a fan) just because she thought I'd like it. Then a couple weeks later she adds me on fb either likes or comments on nearly everything I post. Lot of guys comment on her fb posts I do once in a while if I have something to say I'm the only one who's comments she seems to react to. Only thing that's held me back from making a move is this is a classic case of pissing in your own pool. Now I know there are consequences in a situation like this, but we're both adults and speaking for myself if we were to go out and it didn't work out I'd say ok no worries carry on and still be able to talk to her without any awkward feelings. However I just thought I'd run it by you guys get some outside perspective before I made any moves.

As always any advice is appreciated thanks!!

I'm assuming that "pissing in your own pool" is just another way of saying "shitting where you eat."

But you didn't explain the context of why it would be so. Is she a coworker?

If she was cold to you before but all of a sudden isn't anymore, sounds like someone's spreading nice rumors about your cock lol

lol ya you never know. She sure did a 180 though. She's actually the manager at a neighboring boxing gym that we're tight with.

I take it you're a manager of another gym then?

I think she's into you. My opinion is that she was cold because she is high value and she knows it. She wanted you to make an effort with her but you didn't, you were passive(?) which spiked her interest as she seen you more(As i'm guessing you had to if both gyms are "tight"). She eventually caved in and started to actively seek your attention because you've been on her mind. Her original game failed so she's trying a different approach... From one extreme to the next.

I would ask her to go out.

I don't actually manage a gym I just help out train and fight out of mine. Even though at 1st she was cold I mean not even so much as a smile I still had a feeling there was something there. Then like I said the 180 happened. Reason I didn't act on it sooner I wasn't sure how intersted I was, but I do think I'll give it a try see what happens.

You said you are an adult and if it doesn't work out you can handle it.

Go for it then, why do you need our advice ?

I've dated my friends sister and when she dumped me horribly I didn't die. If it works great if not, learning experinence.

Btw most of the successful couples I know met through common social circle, friends etc.

I've seen it on here time and time again don't shit where you eat. So I just thought I'd run the situation by you guys see what yall thought.