Hey, guys.

Been gaming this girl, who has an ex who betrayed her. She says she doesen't want to have anything more to do with him, but sometimes mentions him. On his birtday, asked me if she should send him a message. I said yes, that way she holds the high ground instead of apearing weak and resentful (I was going for the alpha "don't care, he's not a threat" attitude). About a week later she complained a friend of hers friended him on fb, after knowing what he had done to her. I asked what was the big deal, since she had said she was over him. She said the problem was her friend's atitude, that she has done similar stuff on the past, she was a phony, bla, bla. A few days ago, she mentioned he liked one of her fb photos. Again, I did the alpha move of "you should try again, if you think it will work". She said (again...) that she is not interested and just wanted to coment on how sleezy he is, betraying her and wanting to get back together after a bad breakup.

What is the best way to deal with this situation?

He is irrelevant. You need to attract her more and escalate more because you are getting pushed into the friendzone.

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Don't do this therapy talk, avoid it.
Sometimes it leads to good things, but it's mostly crap; and girls, you won't believe how much they love this shit.

Try to change the subject as soon as she brings it up and open up fun topics and set up a date.

Girls hate silence. Every time she brings it up just ignore it. If it is becoming too much of a issue than take some time off. Worst possible scenario is she goes back to him, and you wont have to deal with the issue. More likely, she will realize that she wants you around more than she cares about babbling about her ex. Another outcome, is she goes bak to her ex momentarily, realizes he's a douche, and then tries harder when she is around you. In any event, silence is key because it gives you leverage.