Hi, what do you think about this:
When you go sarging should you look as a player or look normal. I mean hairstyle, clothess and so on. ?

Sholud you worry about putting of player vibes or not? Is it better to look as a player or is that worse

when i think of the player vibe something like this appears
-swag printed shirts [oversized]
-baggy jeans
-hats, long chains, glasses
-white jordans.

i'm probably wrong and thats just me and my perception of a guy thats a player.

but when i do go out to sarge i wear;
fitted long sleeve shirts/or non sleeve [bowtie, suspenders, or both]
fitted jeans[not baggy or super skinny]
wristbands[odd looking(peacock), necklaces]
-dressing shoes, boots.

but thats just me. it usually depends what type of girls your after.

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to me this guy looks like a player

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Short answer is: Normal.

Long answer is: Everything starts with what kind of people you will find at the club where you go. Start by dressing like them, which is "normal" in their opinion. That makes you one of them, easier to accept and talk to. But... You need to do something different in order to stand out from the crowd. Just not too different.

If you go to a hard rock club, put your hard rock clothes on, but change your black T-shirt to a white one, and groom yourself. If you go to a snobby place where everyone is dressed up in suits, either dress down a little bit if you want to be defiant (requires some attitude), or change the color of your shirt.

The only way to give off a player vibe is if you're confident, know your stuff and don't ever doubt yourself. Clothing won't ever give off a "player vibe." Ever. If you lack the confidence, skills and you're needy or something you're not going to be giving off any vibe no matter how you dress.

Every guy wants to be a player but no one wants to wear the title. Embrace that shit. When a girl calls me a player I say " So.. ". They laugh and we continue like it never happened. The only things that haunt you are the things you try to hide.

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but some girls will reject you, just because you look like a player.

Or they will say to themselves: I don't really need a player. Or something like that.

And Mystery never looked like a player, and Gamber and Adam Lyons. Quite a lot of gurus.

For a daygame?

So do you dress like a player when you go sarging (daygame, nightgame...)

I like to try and dress in an unusual fashion, a mixture of Johnny Depp and Russell Brand, stands out from the people in their jeans and loafers uniform.

It doesn't matter really as long as you look good, people say Russell Brand dresses like a moron, but I have never seen anyone get girls like that guy and I have met him. Trust me, even without fame that man is a natural born player with the most extraordinary charisma I have come across, everyone knows he has slept with over 2000 women and they still literally line up for him after his shows, like a genuine queue.

Clothing doesnt give off a player vibe. Players are confident, go for what they want, are good with women, fuck them and leave them. Girls will automatically be cautious of you if you are smooth, because they know players are smoothm therefore you can do certain things like gain their trust and build a deep deep connection with them that helps lower that stigma.

...your clothing has absolutely nothing to do with it...