Hey everyone. Been around pua off and on for about 2 to 3 years. Lately my game has been really coming together for me. Really i'm driven and expanding my career. I understand women alot better. I don't place too much value on women as well anymore. I'm above average looking, i dress well. I'm holding my frames alot better and i communicate extremely well. I can build comfort like a muthafucka.

I got one major problem though. I lack balls. I just hardly escalate. Somehow i still seem to be ashamed of my sexual desire.

I'm a virgin so i obviously lack sexual experience. so i know that undermines my confidence. Guy's i truly just can't bring myself to fuck a girl or make my intentions known. It's like i'm afraid of pussy!

I missed easy sex because of this fear at least more than once. Just last week i took a girl out on a date. It went GREAT. hookah, drinks, cruise down a scenic road. At the end of it all she bought me food and was just really open to me. I seduced this girl. yet at the end of it all i didn't make a move. She sat in my car for at least ten minutes after it was over. All i had to do was grab her and make out. But i didn't. I pussed out. I saw the confusion and maybe even disgust in her eyes as she realized i wasn't going for it and got out of the car. I know fucked up big and probably lost her. I missed about 2 more make outs with other girls this way as well.

just tonight i was at a bar and i didn't approach a single girl. I had looks thrown my way and i was having fun with my boy. I just didn't find the drive in me to go for anything. And i know i can do it.

When it's go time though i just never seem to be able to make it happen.

I know its a common case of aa but there is something else behind that making it all worse.

I got the chops and i'm tired of letting opportunities pass me by. Why can't i just do it!

I plan to make sex my main goal for now cuz this shit is ridiculous! gonna groom the the little man and start carrying condoms with me.

Some direction into handling this i would love to hear. Thanks

There isn't a lot you can do on the making out front apart from just forcing yourself to go for it, I used to just go to clubs and get random make outs with girls to build confidence. But you have got to start with kiss closing and it's really easy once you get the hang of it.

As for the sex, I think in some situations there is nothing wrong with just telling them that you're a virgin, if you're totally honest and don't act apologetic for it then they'll hopefully respect it. Tell them you never met anyone you liked enough. That's what I did when I was sexually inexperienced.