hey yall

i have this girl who loves me and i love her but i used to textmessage her a lot.

i stopped this week doing that.. and she stopped aswell. she is kinda pissed, yet she doesnt know what is happening i believe.
i used to textmessage her goodnight every night and she would reply.
last night she had to be the one starting the textmessage, i replied 20 min later.
today she has tried to call me, but i was not there 2 times. i saw she called and turned my cell phone back off.

the thing is we are not in a fight, i love her more than anything. i just wanted her to "get on her knees" for me. cuz i dont want to be her doggy.

we love and trust each other though but i have to do all the calling and textmessaging all the time. i have probably sent double as much to her as she has to me.
i just stopped doing it.

But tonight i will see her again, in person. what should i say without blowing my cover. and still she knows she can trust me and i havent been cheating on her?


best regards,
stekemrt

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hey yall,
about an hour ago i text messaged that i was busy studying this week and that i saw she has tried to call me today 2 times and that i loved her really much.

i kinda blew my cover.
about half an hour later she replied a happy non-sensual text message. kinda like im her friend. LJBF

she had a fun week with not much studying.. im kinda worried.
she says she is not into me this weekend because she needs to study

fuckfuckfuck

how to recover, she has no desire into me whatsoever.
i turned off some buttons due to being afc first and now im acting like i dont care.
she sees right through it i think.
i believe i suck as hell. im pissed off

would it be a good move to let it rest and not doing anything and leave her study and study aswell?

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Trying to communicate with her right away will reinforce your statement that "you love her". Now you look like the needy one and she feels like she has you.

So now you have to find a way to bring her off her pedestal. You could try freezing her out, but she could interpret that as being afraid to talk to her now that she knows you have a thing for her.

So ask yourself some questions: how to bring her down?

You could neg her.
You could be C&F.
You could find a way to DHV, lowering her position relative to you.

In any case, I wouldn't text her, because that could similarly be construed in her eyes as cowardice at this point. If you do text her, it should be a neg.

I tell ya you/re right, telling this girl you have feelings for her is *not* what you should have done. Maybe someone else has better advice to help you pull yourself out.

thanx

things are good again
hahah

i did C&F on her, normally i would do some dramatic emo text messaging but since i ve done it a lot (they did work though, it kinda works on her mother instincts of caring and loving)
but i dont want to overuse them and being pathetic too much.
so i did C&F, in textmessage. She didnt reply i was like she must be upset.

the reason was because she loved me too, and i didnt textmessage her for a whole week made her feel like i was leaving her in the cold (totally stupid, i mean i nearly lost her i believe)
We made up, i proved her i had been thinking about her every day which was true really, i really love her the most of everyone i know.
she told me sincerely that she thinks about me everyday.
well :p
she also told me that she was pissed today (dunno if was due to me, i do think so partially)
she really loves me. though, im always a bit anxious of losing her. or at least that she will cheat on me

at the same time i still hit on girl, in terms of flirting. and not excessively just so that if she cheats on me, i can find another in no time.

thx for your reply a lot, it contains some useful information. its really like a scheme :p if she does this, then i have 3 ways of negging her ^^ to heal my relationship lol kinda like a doctor. hey the relationship is sick
lets heal it by negging and then showing some care
rofl
hwahw
cool this pua shizzle

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Failure was never an option


Because girls don't like sex.. Yeah RIGHT!
Why else do you think girls have P*ssies