Say you have been dating her 1 year.

During this time she introduces you to every member of her family including her grandmother

She introduces you to all of her closest friends

Asks to meet YOUR family early on

Goes on vacations with you


BUT the two of you never put a title on it until recently, about 1 year in. Any time she has suspected YOU of doing something with another girl, you have talked about it and squashed that notion


I have read that women wouldn't do this because it would risk them looking like a slut if YOU keep popping up in her life consistently and then some random she hangs out with alone.


We just made it official and I would probably dump her ass if I found out that within the last 6 months she fucked an ex (who hovers) or some random, because the implication was STRONG that we were exclusive


But when we had the talk after her STRONGLY hinting she wanted me as her boyfriend, I said you are my girlfriend, and she says "since when? I didn't know what to call it". She had brought up the convo months prior, then I waited to put a title on it after saying I like where things are headed lets keep things going and she kind of brought it up again so I jumped at the chance.

Do you suspect she is "sleeping around"?

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In short, no, but I am only worried because while I acted like her boyfriend and she has never turned plans down with me and always initiates, I never put a label on it

She has a bunch of AFC orbiters, and her ex bf texts her happy birthday, happy fourth of july, ect. I saw her phone on the fourth of july one and she replied cordially then ignored his texts for like 4 days in a row

But half the time she is sore from sex with me, having period issues from using plan b from me, ect.

This kind of thinking is stressing you out unnecessarily. Think like a Samurai warrior. To survive in battle, think that you're already dead. The only thing that matters is you and your sword. That's how you survive death and slay as many pussies as you can.

To answer your question, based on my experiences, yes. But of course, all girls are not the same. There's this fuck buddy of mine at the office who just got married for 2 weeks or so. She kept on rubbing her breast at my elbow so I ended up rubbing my dick on her ass. Eventually, we ended up banging for several hours in the office. She later narrated how her honeymoon sucked because her husband was not good in bed. I was the guy who took away her virginity.

That's just one example. There's more but that one is the worst so far.

The point is, the only thing that you should be concerned about is you and your sword (cock). Assume that your gf has fucked every Tom, Dick and Harry that she has grabbed asses with. Now, your job is to fuck her brains out every time and keep on improving yourself instead of allowing your mindset to deteriorate into this needy vibe. That's the only way you'll get inner peace and keep her loyal and committed to you.

She has a pussy as much as you have a cock. She's human. She isn't an artificial Jenny Jameson pussy with 100% genuine latex that feels like human vagina handcrafted by beautiful virgin Chinese factory girls that you can lock in your closet so she doesn't get the urge to try other cocks. How much time without you does she need to fuck around? A 3-minute quickie with a stranger rarely leads to orgasm. The rule of thumb is 20 minutes foreplay and 20 minutes banging. One hour is her window of opportunity to fuck around. You can't be watching her 24 hours a day.

As long as you're giving her the dopamine excitement from passion and sexual intercourse and giving her lots of oxytocin release from multiple orgasms so she's calm and contented, she'll stick with you like mozarella cheese sticks on pizza.

So what if she fucked 30 guys before you two were officially on? What matters is the here and now. If you keep on thinking did she fuck 30 guys or not before you two were officially on, then that pressure's going to explode sooner than later. Assume that she fucked every man on sight and you'll feel better and okay.

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I love Hellhound's approach to pussy. Just remember that your girlfriend has had another guy's jizz on her face and she loved it, she begged for more! As soon as you are okay with this and you embrace the idea that women love sex, you will be far happier and content in the knowledge that she chose your dick over all the others. This means she tried a lot of dicks before you and chose yours! That means you're the man!

So you guys mean to tell me that if a girl has been wanting you as her boyfriend, tells you she likes you ALOT several times all throughout dating, you see her as much as you'd see a girlfriend and you've met each other's families and the sex is good.........

that she will risk banging another guy and risking me finding out just because there is no title? I thought the idea was you should wait for the woman to bring up exclusivity a time or two then give in eventually. I would think a woman who was kinda pressing for me to be exclusive would have been loyal if we fell into these roles

Perhaps she is traditional and keeps dropping hints hoping you will make it official.

I wouldn't worry about the past dude.. The fact of the matter is; she is your girlfriend now and thats it. These are the things you may want to think about before making things official. You've already made it official; its over. The clean slate starts now.

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