I am abroad and have been hanging out with a set of girls for 2 months now. Ive already banged one of them but I want to pursue the others.

Ive noticed that my effort level has significantly dropped and our group conversations arent as fun anymore and i feel like I am losing them because Ive become somewhat boring. I introduced a new girl to the group and there was a lot of dead air partly because I do not have the same energy level but almost as if I am running out of things to say.

When there is dead air is it better to not say anything than to ask some rudimentary, mundane question?

I am in a very conservative place abroad and game here is a complete 180 than game everywhere else Ive been

You need to start being more interesting or embrace the silence. Don't try and fill silence with nonsense conversation.

Agreed with Majikal. Silence isn't the worst thing in the world, if you pay close attention to your interactions with friends, you will have times of silence and not even realize it.

I don't know about you but I live with room mates, they are all chill mates. (also this goes with what the above posters said). I love them seriously, we can chat on for hours. But can I tell you a secret, there are times where we will all just sit next to each other and literally be silent as a mouse. Why, because we don't want to fucking talk.

There you go, silence is good.

Now for your issue of being boring. Guess what I did last week. You can't theres millions of possibilities so I will jus ttell you. I went sky diving. fuck its awesome I know, I love talking about it. Sure its an expensive thing to do. So I am not saying to do it (yes I am) but there are other things to do. I take my girls go karting, putt putt (real man here), swimming at night in a closed pool, rock climbing, those awesome trampoline gyms, so many things you can do. Some are $$$$ some are only ~$20 and you can do a lot of free shit too... Just get off your ass and go do something.

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