Hey Guys,

I'm pretty new to the Pua world.About a year ago I was a complete AFC,never kissed a girl/girlfriend that all changed last summer when I met my ex girlfriend.I have made alot of progress from a year ago,really have no problem talking to women, trying to get girls number.My friend had a party yeasterday because it was his 20th birthday. I got to his party about eight pm everyone there was having a good time drinking what not I found my friend wished him a happy birthday played a couple of rounds of beer pong/flip cup got a good buzz going and decided to see if there were any girls worth talking to.

I found two Hb about 8.6.I started to walk up to them but then I went back to my shy Afc having no idea what to say no confidence.Yet if I was by myself I would have gone up to those girls and talked to them.

My question is why when I'm with my friends and there female friends I go back into the Afc mode,yet when I'm out by myself I have no problem talking/flirting with girls?Thanks for your help

Theres no definitive answer, but maybe subconsciosly you are afraid of failing in front of them and they will see you and poke fun. Thats all i can come up with, but if they give you shit, go cocky asshole on them and give them, "well at least i tried rather than sitting in a corner jerking off with you guys"

gets them everytime

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Hey thanks man.I'm kicking myself now for being such a pussy yesterday because there were so may hot girls there.

do what the above post said, but also don't drink in the field unless you don't plan to pick up, you can have a beer or two, but nothing more

Plow. The first couple of sets (girls) you open will probably not be good, so use them to get yourself talkative and some social value (make them smile). Then talk to the other girls at the party, be friendly and high energy (read: fun without seeming like a psycho), and have a good time.

Remember, no expectations or pressure---you are the prize, let the women choose you when you sarge them.

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