Situation: Super hot shy girl had a crush on me but I didn't act on it as didn't see a way how... now back home from uni and added her on facebook... I have never spoken to her but I could to tell her attraction via her body language and other situations. I do have an emotional connection to her but not big enough to be called oneitis.

I have never tried game on facebook before and considering I haven't spoken to her I have no fuckin clue how to open/ start the message... I want to do this just to get the ball rolling with my online game and I'm not overly concerned what happens...

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Any help in a good on line opener for my situation will be greatly appreciated, cheers!

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My journal: eyrie-s-journal-to-becoming-the-man-vt148355.html

--If you are not giving, you are not living--

There's one sign that i can read from you:
- You've just started PUA and you want to try it in your circle because you are too afraid of going out to meet unknown people!

There's something i should tell you:
- Never use facebook (sms, whatever) to game girls, this shit doesn't work, you are not able to throw up emotions eye-contact, touch and shit over your keyboard and then she would absolve it all and will love you until the end.... you just press keys, how boring is that shit?

This was one advise! Your main goal is to get her number at least within one day!

Best opener so far (facebook chat):
- Hey, remember that when you <make a playful lie about something she did, overstate the shit out of it> ...bam Gold!!
If the girl is into you she'll get along with any shit tho!

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Go out and practice, don't be lazy!!! Girls don't fall from the sky!

Best of luck!

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You have read me like a book lol, cheers for advice and I will do as you say... tomorrow should be interesting.

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My journal: eyrie-s-journal-to-becoming-the-man-vt148355.html

--If you are not giving, you are not living--

We all been there

Btw, you'll not be able to apply this techniques to people that you already know because you have to change the way you are and that would become as creepy. You should try it to new people it's better

Goals for that girl (do once at the time, and don't force it, you have time!):
- Get her number and stop talk over facebook
- Set a date (over testing)
- Go in a date

Best of luck



Report your results here

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^^This is what I sent to her, I think I might have come across as arrogant as fuck because I'm pretty sure they were talking about me that was the reason for there freezing act...so I may have sent the wrong kind of message?

She didn't reply, the message says its unread and she hasn't blocked or deleted me. Most likely she read it then marked it as unread, I will leave it a couple days and still nothing I will delete her, I don't like seeing reminders of my mistakes.

The thing which was interesting was the crazy nervous feeling and the constant checking of my facebook which proceeded sending the message... lasted a couple of hours and was more intense then seeing important exam results, didn't expect it to cause such a emotional roller coaster.

Thoughts?

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My journal: eyrie-s-journal-to-becoming-the-man-vt148355.html

--If you are not giving, you are not living--

" I don't like seeing reminders of my mistakes." An unsuccessful pick up attempt is not necessarily a mistake. Some picks-up failures are results of mistakes on your part, others are just part of the game, you can do everything "right" and still not get the girl, game just increases your chances (by a lot).

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True, but in this case it was a mistake because I was too much of a pussy to game her in person when I had a chance, I left it too later... that was the mistake.

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My journal: eyrie-s-journal-to-becoming-the-man-vt148355.html

--If you are not giving, you are not living--

If they were talking about you then you sent a good message
Btw: If the girl mark it as unread it'll don't affect your messages. But there's a thing called "unseen" which is a plugin that you can download to your browser and works nice because people are not notified that you read their facebook messages (:

It sucks when girls don't reply back doesn't it? Now you've achieved another power, use it in your advantage in the future! Nothing sucks must than get ignored from the other! Use it!

I've admired your idea, yes remove that message, forget about it! But talk to her (in person) when you have the time! But don't go after her for no reason, make an excuse, for example i usually talk to the one person around first to make clear to her that i were there not for her!

About texting game (the only things that i know, i don't do that, it sucks!)
- Don't send extensive sentences, be short as possible!
- Don't "lol" at your own jokes
- Don't send a lot of paragraphs
- Don't use a lot of smiles (and avoid emoticons, make smiles only with text)
- Let the conversation opened to answers or opinions (which you did, she is able to reply back if she want to)
- If the girl replies short like "yes" "ok" "no", she's not interested
- If the girl leave the conversation for no reason and don't say bye, she's also not interested.
- If the girl gives you huge sentences, she might be interested, if she's not interested on you at least she is interest on your conversation.
- If the girl talks about guys = not interested

Topics you should avoid (texting or regular conversation):
- Do you have a boyfriend? -> you don't really want to know! you should think she doesn't have!
- I want to be your friend \ i love this friendship -> It's ok... if you want to get into the friendzone!!
- Talking about your problems
- Talking about disgusting things (such as pee, turds, etc.)
- Critic something
- Talking bad about others

Topics you should bring in:
- Emotions
> When i was a kid my mom bla bla bla
> I do surf because it gives me a lot of adrenaline, bla bla bla
- Your values
- Positive things...
- Etc.

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