ive been having alot of success with my openers and bieng able to spark a conversation. but after a few minits if the conversation i have trouble relating it to a different topic to keep conversation flowing. if im at a party or club ill just excuse my self because i have to get back to my friends but if we are not in a crowded area im screwed.

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-Peter Black

Use routines to fill in the conversational gaps, and control your frame and maintain it so that you control where the convo goes...always take it somewhere that you have plenty to speak about.

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"Be the same, only better."

What are some routines that you like to include?

Lets say you start with the A1 opener, use a couple of negs. Do the 5 lie game. A DHV what else would you use?

I get the same problem! there is a ackward silence, then i try to continue it and she looses interest and i look stupid!

Well, when all else fails, you could always just fake a text message or a phone conversation.

Take the moment to check a text and scan through your routines/stories on your phone. Finish up, smile real big, laugh to yourself and then you can stack using the "text" you just got to tell a story. For example...

"OMG, my friend just got back with his ex-girlfriend. Blah! He's such a great guy and she is just bad news. Sure, she's gorgeous, but beauty is common. She's always putting him down and walking all over him. I would never let a girl treat me like that. One night we were all out and EVERY time he left to go to the bathroom, she kept getting touchy/feely with me. Like I would actually consider doing ANYTHING with her. That's my FRIEND. I would *never* think of doing something like that. Stupid girl. They think that because they look good they can get away with anything."

Ha, got a little carried away there. Good luck!

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-ChrisTOTP

"I take my chain. My 15 seconds of fame. And come back next year with the whole fuckin' game." -- Kanye West

dont open with something u cant transition from...

whats the A1 routine

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-Peter Black

An excuse to get into a set. "Who lies more..."

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If my post made me appear homosexual, I want you all to know that prior to sitting down at my computer I slammed 15 shots of whiskey, went balls-deep into my woman, and recited Clint Eastwood lines for 20 minutes.

Use converstational vibing.

Every sentence has 2-5 topics to vibe on to. You will just need to learn to notice them.

For example:
This morning my cat woke me up by jumping on top of me and started playing with my hair.

A few topics here:
-Her morning
-Her cat
-Cats
-Crappy ways to wake up
-C&F, want me to jump on top of you?
-Her hair

Spend some time with friends and just train yourself to notice all these topics. After you can see them fairly well, you can start to train yourself to use their input to vibe from one of these topics onto a topic that you will choose.

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