Hey listen guys I was aproaching this group of girls and guys at a club last friday, I used the jelous girl friend opener, got them intrested than I started, fluffing a bit asking where they were from, than I isolated this girl HB 7.5, I neged her a bit, everything was ok, BUT than she asked me my age and than I said OLD ENOUGH haha I always use this line when girls ask than I reversed the question and she was like 20, and shes like well u look 18(which I am) and she was like awww like if I was some of sort of kid or too young... I dunno.... well anyway after that it was all down hill, she told me she had a b/f, O and one of the guys was like the b/f isn't here but im his friend soo I just left! what should I have done and what did I do wrong? Specialy on the b/f and age thing

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see you got her for a second and then lost it, when you get into that kind of conversation you should have isolated her and ingored the B/F. To get the guys to be chill with you try to be so much cooler then the guys they know and boost there ego in the way that your the bigger brother, i am only 19 but i make peoaple feel like i have the expereince. you should have negged her about her age to, if she gets on you about yours tell her she looked lie 16, or say 20 sucks cant drink, but can vote and one of the two is way more fun.

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Age is a problem for me too. I'm 18 (it's legal to drink the UK at 18 ) but most of the 18 year old girls will normally be attracted to 21, 22, 23 year old guys for obvious reasons (money, experience, ego and social standing).

Some material for age, from Mystery:

If she accuses you of being young, this is an IOI - Don't apologise for this as the regular chumps would as only someone trying to get the girl would do that. Simply reply cynically "yeah I noticed.... poor you" and remember to convey your playful attitude. "Take a moment to get over this age thing. I'll wait."

As for boyfriends, don't let it affect you. It's a test in itself. When a girl tells you she has a boyfriend, there's several reasons for this:

1. She's testing you and to see your reaction
2. She's giving herself plausible deniability. She will feel like a slag if she shags you without you knowing she has a boyfriend, but if you're aware of the fact, then she feels like "well, he was leading me on... one thing led to another" - she makes excuses for herself and abdicates herself from responsibility.
3. You're moving too fast into the intimacy and seduction stages. You need to take a step back and spend more time building a connection and conversation to increase her comfort levels with you.

Hope this helps!
Yep, a girl once asked me how old she looked... I told her "hmm, 18?", but she looked 20 odd. She got really annoyed, and the more annoyed she got, the more material I could gather from her. I would then tell her "well, you say you're 20, but you're acting like a spoilt 13 year old", then say her friends look a lot older than they actually do. She didn't forget about me too quickly and I continued it through the entire night, I didn't bother taking it further though as she was a HB7, but not my hair colour preference.