To let you know some thing about my self I am 20 been gamin for about 5 months now,socially accepted and cute guy(atleast that what ladies call ), I am a virgin(not lack of oppurtunity but some moral senses). I game for fun ,networking and some 2nd base action.Alryt I liked this girl who liked me as a friend so far,we were heading great ,there was IOI. During the new years party at my frat house we were talking and was hoping to kiss her at the eve. But after some disturbing phone about a close friends death I cound't control my emotions and got drunk . Obviously the rule says no game when drunk ,but I made fun of myself at the party acting like a AFC chasing that girl to get the kiss etc. Finally she lost it and started to make out with my brother(faternity) and I dont know what else went on because I got mad and made out with some random chick. So next morning I sent an apology message about my misbehaviour and she said it's ok and "whatever" at end of her message. Now she thinks I am a jerk and she will be comin another party at the house.How do I win her back , I mean I ve used up all my negs and charms to get her first time.I am totally out of game. PLease advice me!!!

ps: she is one of the brother's sister, but bro dosen't give a shit about my actions.

Best advice here is to move on. Theres pretty much nothing you can do at this point to change her opinion. Game around for a while maybe things will blow over but for now its prolly not worth it.

That is a very typical situation that you got yourself into and it's not even your fault, it's all the excess alcohol that sends you into afc mode (reason why I'm taking a break). My best advice would be that next time you see her at a party or whatever to pay little attention to her at all, maybe say something short and sweet like: "Hi" and act really uninterested. The best thing to do now is to stay sober and chat up the nicest HB at the party and work magic. If you can work game on another better looking chick then hey, your already doing better than the other girl from before. Also if this girl your gaming starts to show you interest and attracted to you, this will show the other girl that hey maybe he was drunk and he actually is a guy of higher value and other girls like him! Trust me I have done something almost identical to this and it will work if pulled off correctly!

I've been there, regarding the drunken AFC chasing thing. The friend's death, sorry to hear about that man. My advice regarding the girl is to move on. That's the best advice I can give in this situation. Just find it in yourself to admit you fucked up, and you've learned a lesson. I'm sure there will be plenty of gals at the next party to game. hehe.

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