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PostPosted: Sun Jan 06, 2008 12:09 am 
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So how can you maintain yourself as a challenge after you and an HB know you are attracted to each other?

Basically what happened is I went to the mall with an HB8 and afterwards she came over to my house and I failed to make a move when I obviously could have many times. I have been banging my head on the wall ever since but anyway...She later texted me saying that she and her friends were wondering why I hadn't made a move yet. Basically we decided that we both liked each other and would enjoy going on a few dates. So I still haven't made a move yet because one time I was with her family and had no opportunity and another time I was around all of her friends and again, there was no opportunity. Now she recently texted me saying that she enjoyed the chase, but now I have become "too easy" and therefore she has lost interest. Also she said she's deathly afraid of guys who like her because she think they have to be crazy to like her. (wtf is up with that?? low self esteem I'm guessing)

So I'm just trying to ensure that I don't make the same mistake again, and I was wondering how can I maintain the challenge/chase after we already divulged that we like each other?


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 07, 2008 1:15 am 
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dont be discouraged. She is interested.

BUT you are in the AFC zone with her from your previous encounters.

Go back to to DHVs and playful NEGs ASAP. Also when you get another shot with her - remember it may be your last shot. These are powerful motivators to be the man. Just like if she was only in town for one day. Also when setting another meeting, dont be available anytime she wants to get together. Be "unavailable" on her first and second day/time suggestion. You only have "this night or that night open this week." kind of thing. Even if it means you see her a day later than what you want. YOU need to build value back.

She has already shown a ton of interest. regardless of those last couple texts.

You can do it!


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 07, 2008 5:16 am 
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I think now it is not the time to be a challenge, it is a time to make a move on her. So as soon as you'll have an opportunity, do it so you can avoid staying in the friends zone. Then will be the time to being a challenge. Mate before me gave you good tips how to do it.

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