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i recently use to answer this girls phone calls and i also responded to her texts back every time she would text me or call asap. She started to stop doing the phone calls and texts maybe because i would always answer.. and i recently just completely ignored her like not even call her during weekends and she didnt call me either, the following week she texts me but i ignore that and her phone calls. Now it hit me, i use to chase her and respond to her texts and answer her phone calls every time she would call. I now basically feel like i am being chased by her =], but ignoring to much would that be costly??

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-NOEL 1 2 3-

Well, this is all part of the "Cat String Theory."
Look it up if you're interested in the logistics of it.

But the thing is, you don't want to turn ignoring her into a habit. You want to be elusive, and spontaneous. Don't be predictable.

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yeah thanks for the info but it seems i did it a little to long, ill find a way to rebound.
thanks for the help though, ill keep you guys updated.

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Nov 20, 2007 11:22 PM

whats your problem these days..??? your hecca wierd were friends then were not just like that huh???? k whatever.. your a strange cookie noel. i was just wondering how you got to be so bipolar?????? dont know dont care

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-NOEL 1 2 3-

It doesn't sound to me like she started actually chasing you. Sure, she wasn't used to you not jumping at her every call or text, and that's probably why she dropped you a line occassionally. But, it doesn't sound like she started chasing you. It's obvious from "her words" that she considered you a friend, but now, I'm not so sure you're even solid in that category.

yeah, we use be fuck buddies and all. you should of seen her today during class. i walk in to class about 30 min late and i say hi to her and see how shes doing and i sit next to her and im acting like nothing is wrong like i never seen the message she sent me before class. but she gives me no emotion nothin what so ever, she just looked upset for nothing. it baffles me when i think about it, she is mad over me not calling her back or texting her which is funny. she then walks out from class about 20 min before class ends, so i text her she gives me some shit... i like having the last word so i texted her back saying :

wow wheres all this anger coming from...? i came to class all good and happy i said hi and all thinking everything was cool. ill call later hoping its all good.

she never responded back, which obviously mad her think.

could her anger be because she still likes me, or because she might not like being ignored?
one more thing i forgot to add, she has seen me talk to other girls.
thanx in advance

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-NOEL 1 2 3-

In a word.. yes. You have to employ the cat / string method. When you were answering everything she sent you and calling her right back, she had the string.. and she was bored with it. But when you start pulling the string back and not letting her get it she is going to want it more. That is getting her more interested - and now you can selectively talk back but make sure you are coming off alpha! Just my 2 cents..

I wouldn't have even texted her back. She's throwing a temper tantrum. DON'T reward her for it. Don't call. Let her initiate.