I really like my girlfriends bestfriend(HB10), but the problem is she is very loyal.
When i first met her(HB10) i could tell she was attracted to me, but i was a complete AFC and didn't know what to do at the time.
I acted super nice to her, and my gf got a little suspicious and accused me of liking her (which i flat out denied ,of course, saying i was only nice to her cause shes your friend)

from there i laid off a bit until we all went on a camping trip, where i was left with HB10 alone for a few hours.
we chatted a lot and somehow i built attraction(was still AFC at the time) and we had some flirting going on.
My gf's mom came into the tent and saw me and HB10 having a good time laughing.
she went back to my gf and said " those 2 our perfect together, i bet he's going to break up with you and go for her(HB10)"
and yeah from there things went sour cause my gf freaked out.
so now she(HB10) kind of stays back from me and its more of a LJBF kinda thing.

anyway i've basically cut myself off from her(HB10) and havn't talked to her in 4 months or so.
Now i have a little game and know what i'm doing for the most part
how should i go about doing this,
she invited me and my gf to a party next month
i'd just like to stress again that they are VERY good friends, but HB10 is desperately looking for a sweet guy since shes never been in a relationship(she's still fairly young only 17)

It's basically gotten to the point of one-itis, It's really dragging my relationship with my gf down. I can't hang out with my gf without thinking about her(HB10) and it doesnt help that there always together and im always hearing stories about her etc..

If you do anything with the HB10, break up with your girlfriend first. PUAs aren't dicks.

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First of all, How old are you? Second... Why did you start dating your GF if you liked her friend who was hotter... Third'
If You Are going to break up with your girl, make it seem like something that can't be changed. i.e. "You work too much," "You're not ambitious enough for me?"
Or something Far more Circumstantial, "I don't think i'll have enough time for you with my new promotion" "I like your friend"
"I like to move really fast into relationships"
Some B.S. like that so she does not feel it's her fault, or anything she can change.
Or... you can ride out the relationship, get with her best friend & cheat on her
HOWEVER... the way you act towards her best friend is how the HB10 is going to assume you mingle with other single-females, Be Careful, Or She'll think you're the Cheating type...
You know what they say...
"Once a cheater, always a cheater."

Furthermore, do not get with her best friend within Two weeks of breakin' it off with her, it will seem lke a rebound
Give it, like 4 months, & let her chase you, just talk to her on the phone a lot to establish comfort,
So when she finally can have you, she can't get enough of the real thing!!

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-Jigga What?

Make sure that your girlfriend knows that you are the Alpha Male. You need to be certain that her best friend gets that vibe also. Women talk about relationships to each other. You maybe the subject of some of their conversations. If you can show that your value is high then the HB10 will try to get closer to you. Don't disrespect your current gf. Be cool. Have a plan to get what you want.

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Desmaro.

insurgentdeerz:
1) I'm 20
2) They've known each other from when they were little, but never started hanging out till last year, so i didnt know her the time i asked my gf out.


thing is.. if i break up with her ill never get to see her friend again.
i'm not planning on cheating on her, i just want to become closer to her friend
so when i do break up, ill still be able to talk to her

Well, you should go away for a while, or focus on your career or something...
One thing to never mess with is a woman's friendships, trust me, those women would usually rather be without a guy & hang with their best girlfriend for life, than Cat-fight over you. Ever heard the phrase "Chicks before Dicks?" Yeah, I'm sure.
This isn't anything that any man can change, it's just female nature, so I suggest you hang out with both of them, only when with fellow friends, Only in large groups.
I have tons of Female Friends who have boyfriends, But we Don't talk about anything inappropriate. I simply look at them as Other human beings who I cannot take interest in, Trust me, You DO NOT want to cros that line. It will make you look like a cheat & a loser.
Don't hang out with her (the girl you like) alone anymore, or else it will cause suspiciton,. NEVER be alone w/ her , especially when your girlfriend's around. Here's the thing, try to get the GF to break up with YOU, then it will be better, maybe giving her reasons, besides being a bitch about.
Furthermore, don't do something that you know is morally wrong to get her to break up with you, like disrespect her, break committments to meet, etc. It will make you look like a Shady persona, and since Females tell each other EVERYTHING, yes, everything, even your size,, the HB 10 will see you doing the same thing to her as when You make her Your Girlfriend.
Back to the girlfriend:
Although, don't do something like "I'd rather be single right now" and then hook up with her best friend, 'cause then you'll look like a hypocrite, If you'd rather be single, then why do you need a relationship right after?
it screams "REBOUND!!"

Furthermore, propose that you guys go out a lot with your friends, maybe having an open relationship instead, but DO NOT go out with her friend at this time, give it some months, & I'm sure she'll be yours

I know, it's a long lecture, but you need to watch this, it's long, But There Are Friggin' Diamonds in this advice, watch it as many times as need be as well as the accompanying videos.

Good Luck[/i]

http://youtube.com/watch?v=NdNNZ905wGA

You could always tell her you wanna explore your options.

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Hmmmm, there is one other possibility that I know of. You could actually get the 10 to become so attracted to you and attached to you, not "purposely" of course, that she wants you OVER the need to have her g/f. Especially if they haven't been best friends all of their lives.

I've actually been in that spot before. Two best girl friends both wanted me. I liked one, and actually had messed around with the other one too. Well, I ended up with the one I wanted. I'm still with her today actually, and although there was a time when the two split the friendship, today they are back to being friends. In fact, all three of us are great friends again. So, it IS possible.