So my friend had this HB7 send him a myspace message saying he's sexy and they should hang out. They hung out last night and he left with an f-close. He doesn't know about the whole PUA thing but can pull good looking girls just because they think he's hot. I feel lame because he has this happen, and I'm still over here with fuckin approach anxiety.

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"Ability is what you're capable of doing. Motivation determines what you do. Attitude determines how well you do it." - Lou Holtz

that is not something to get discouraged about; seeing one of your buddies pull in tail without trying should be a good motivational tool.

everyone has issues that they need to deal with; personal issues are only a problem if you don't work to fix them.

He gets laid without having to work for it. Cool....my buddies 6 years ago in highschool got BMW's from their parents. They went to college off their parents dime...and now a lot of them are freaking out because there are OH MY GOD- BILLZ! I worked my ass off to buy a fucking Acclaim. Guess who learned something along the way though? And guess who never got in an accident. And guess who knows how to budget?

Start from the ground up. Joining the PU scene is a very good start, but it can be overwhelming at first. You are going in the right direction. You already know you have approach anxiety. Work with inner game, start reading books to help with that...start smiling at people and striking up random conversations. The more you hide, the harder you will have to work once you come out.

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I agree strongly with Locke, very well put.

I have "natural's" as friends too. They get all kinds of chicks, and i had to work for mine. Now most of them are in their early 20's and getting married, yet still feel like they should be meeting other women. Me, im meeting the women they wish they could now. They still have women come upto them but it makes them feel weird now because they decided at some point to be exclussivly with someone, but are having buyers regret themselves.

Use him as a model for good and bad. What alpha qualities does he possess and what qualities does he lack that keep him from getting more women.

Also remeber PU isnt only about women, it really changes much more then that. Im working on becomming a more social person, a better relative, and a more cheerful outgoing person. Im basically more concerned with being social then women, but women will come and itll be great.

Just get into the lifestyle, learn as much as you can and use it. Before you know it youll be were you wana be.

Hope this helps

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"Be the same, only better."

Good point. Hey before I did this even I would get lucky online with a "Fools Mate." Remember you are a PU Artist meaning you build attraction and comfort before seduction. A lot of time when those happen Attraction is built with no comfort and the f-close happens, only for the girl to have buyers remorse and not talk to them again. You're better than that.

You can only judge yourself by your standards not anyone elses.

J SMOOTH

While it does suck to see a natural pulling girls right and left with you wondering how the hell . . . realize something else:

When you master this art, the natural will be looking at you and asking how the hell YOU are picking up MORE girls than HE is. Then you can smile and him and either explain . . . or leave him to wonder.