it's nice to get a female opinion

It's nice to get a female..

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my advice. If a girl really is interested in you then she won't expect you to pay for her. I made the mistake of paying for a girls (and her friends) night out once and she had absolutely no respect for me whatsoever and I found her kissing the bouncer in the hallway to the toilets.

I was so weak at the time mentally that I stayed "seeing" her and over time managed to turn it around and recently she has paid for everything. And is even showing intrest romantically. I still hate her for destroying me so I used game on her and passed a load of shit-tests and then she is chasing me. Then the other day I thought I'd send her a text message and tell her what a lying cheating using little sl*t she is and don't call me again because she started the mind games again

I personally have never took a girl out to dinner, I would buy a girl a drink on her birthday, I make my way to go and see them.

As for going on dates... I vow never take a girl out on a date. All the girls I sponged off gave me regular sex

That's just it. That's why Idon't take girls out on "dates". I don't "ask" girls to go out with me. I say "meet me here at this time", and it's done.

Paying up front usually does send the wrong impression, BUT if you set it up that way to begin with BY WHAT YOU SAID, then you pretty much HAVE TO. You have to watch how you set it up in the first place.

I've told many of you guys before, I don't pay for the girl. I don't take her out on dates. I don't go the dinner and a movie route. I WILL have the girl watch a movie with me, though we may not get all the way through, BUT the movie is at MY PLACE. I have a girl that I'm seeing meet me at whatever club I'm going to that night, she pays her cover, she pays for ALL of her drinks, and even usually offers me some, which I actually refuse. Just not my thing, to drink a lot. And, by the end of the night, she's wanting to stay the night with me, either at my place or hers.

And, if you've got a girl with you staying the night, if she actually DOESN'T want to do anything, that's kind of strange, but if she keeps pushing you away, you're apparently not building her attraction for you well enough. You HAVE to build the attraction if you want to get somewhere. There's NO WAY around that. You can't just build comfort and you CAN'T push through if she says no, otherwise that's flat out rape. So, build her attraction. Build her anticipation. Use your words. Then, when you have the chance, start using some kino.

Hell, I can get a woman ready to jump in the sack with me JUST with my words, without EVER touching her. So, use your words and build her attraction, then proceed from there. Watch her eye contact and body language while you build the attraction. At some point, if you build it enough, she WILL open up to you.