ok ok where to begin?!?!
i am going to make this short, painless, and less stressful for you and me. since you all know i have been talking about one girl!>?! yes i do go out and have fun with others, but its not the same when i do hangout with this girl or even see her. i tell myself dont fall for her she will just rip your heart and break it into bitty pieces. when i tell myself dont fall for her, each day that goes by its like i fall for her little by little even though i tell myself not to. I know she is out here in a new town to have lots of fun, maybe even fuck every hot guy she must come in touch with (i have been one of them '4 months ago'). this year around January is when i first met her and 2 months maybe less around april is when the fuck fest began with me and her, everything suddenly stopped about early summer (june). everything stopped between me and her we stopped calling each other we even deleted each other from our myspaces and made them private. why? well i asked my self the whole summer, i just came to conclusion that girls are very weird. A new school year began without me ever talking to her until first day of the new college year. i ended up in the same math class with her, the funny thing is thats where we first met in our previous year of college 'math'. oh we ignored each other the first 2 weeks, she was the first to send me a text saying how i was, i ignored them until she sent me couple more saying i know i left you in the dark and i am really sorry it went something like that. we explained to each other what had happened but she was the one mostly at fault with everything. we recently started talking and hanging out and me trying to push everything aside on what and how that summer went for me. we hang out from time to time, i even get invited to her place, but not anymore since she works up to 10pm every day of the week. (no i dont stalk her she tells me this). we have also messed escalated kino, i even left hickies on her neck haha. but since the new school year we have not fucked which i really thought would be easy for me since we had some history together. i have been iceing her out lately. so i dont know how to get over this situation, but at times i do want to tell her how i feel.
any advice would be appreciated.

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-NOEL 1 2 3-

You want to tell her how you feel? As in you want to tell her that you think about her every waking moment? And that you want to feel her lips on yours again? And that you want her by your side, holding your hand, her body touching yours? And that you want to be fucking her every night? You want to tell her your head over heels in lust with her?

Not good.

And YOU left hickies on HER neck . . . but she didn't do the same for you. So, you're giving her more sexually than she's giving you. Are you also giving her more attention in general than she's giving you?

yeah i have left them on her neck, nope she didnt she just bit my neck and i told her not too give me hickies. correct now that i think about it i do getr more sexual with her then she does with me. well she calls me almost everyday, but now it just stopped for a while, and i think its because i do give her maybe to much attention, wow how did i not noticed this maybe because i am just to head over heals for her? this whole weekened we have not talked to eachother well she did call friday in the afternoon she asked what i was doing and i said i was takeing one of my buddies to work, then i asked her what she was doing laundry and that she is going to hit the clubs/bar later that day. i told her when shes done we should hang out and grab something to eat before she starts getting ready to go out. i never got that phone call. should i not talk to her this whole weekened ? i will see her at school i know this for sure we have class together monday-thursday. and also when i do think about what i have gotten myself into she has been the girl that i really felt comfortable with and i was able to call anytime to hangout and party it up with. what is happening for me is chapter 2 and i dont want to get left behind like i did last summer when school ended. so i tell myself not to try and fall for her again because it will bite me in the ass again. TRIP i think i shall just give her less attention.
as in not answer her phone calls when she does call?
when she asks me to come over say oh no i wont be able to do that?
just the little things you are trying to say?
when would it be right to start giving her attention ?!
i do neg her and i am C&F i always make her laugh when i do see her.
how should i go on about this in our math class?
but if i would do all this it will probably be to late as they say early bird gets the worm.
god i feel so AFC!!!

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-NOEL 1 2 3-

I don't even need to do any more than glance through your post and read Tripp's and I know what is wrong. One-itis. Its a clear cut case, no question in my mind. You need to stop giving her so much attention and think more about yourself in this situation. From what I read, it looks like you're still getting with her, but you are going to lose her quick.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

Just flat out cut her off man. Rye's right, it's one-itis. Cut her off and FOCUS on other girls.

You want to know what to say when she calls? That should be IF she calls. Don't even think about that right now. Just cut her off.

EDIT: P.S. work on your grammar a little too man. It will help us to read your posts easier and understand better.

Well I agree that you have an issue with one itis, but I think you should know if she is going to do anything with you.. First I would get her around to hang out, and not make any moves toward her. No kisses, no hand holding nothing. Make her chase you. If she is interested in you, she will make an attempt to do things with you. Stop her if she does try though. Tell her you dont want anything physical right now. You have to slow things down. But that is only if she is into you like that. Sounds to me like she doesnt want anything serious right now and you do. I would personally cut contact with her long enough to clear your head, and find some other object of interest. The more you chase her the more in control she will be. You need to keep things on your terms. If this seems a little incoherent sorry lack of sleep.

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Just tell her you want her but she is going to have to win you back cause there a lot of beautiful girls but beauty is commen and what more can she offer you besides that.

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