The other night I was talking to this girl at the bar. I was negging her, DHVing etc. I felt the attraction and kino built to a high level, so we left the bar. We ended up making out a few times on our way back to her house, but then I froze afterwards not knowing how to escalate. After we made out she was trying to DLV me by telling me I was her brother's age (she was a few years older than me) and some other shit. Anyways, she ended up passing out on the couch with me, and then going to sleep, and all the energy was sucked dry and I didn't get laid. She kept saying I was a good kisser so I don't think that was making her uninterested.

My question is, do I continue to neg after we made out? How do I esculate and keep sexual tension?

You shouldn't be negging in comfort at all really...


As for sexual tension, http://www.cheaponlinedating.com/advice4.htm

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from what i have been told/ picked up on this forum is that it seemed that she was already very interested in you, although you didnt give her all that she wanted. So basically i would not have negged her after she was making out with you on the couch. I think the best way to go get more than a kiss close is by moving your hands up and down her body as you were making out, then causally go for her boobs and then start rubbing her vag through what ever close she is wearing. If she has connon sense she will prolly start taking off her pants, if she doesnt take off her panties then just repeat the step above until she gets the point. Good Luck

Thanks for the link Close, I'll check it out.

The thing was, we were making out on the way to her house, like on the street like animals, and on a park bench, so I wasn't going to try to feel her up too heavy on a park bench with people walking by. So, after we made out we had to walk like 5 more minutes to get to her house, and once we were there all the energy was gone, maybe that was the problem.

ok ok, so my advice would be that you should have been touching her constantly on the amrs, waist, anything. From there i would have personally got her laughing or something to keep the energy up (one of my favorite things to do is to play with a girls hair, it drives them crazy). Once you got inside after doing that, i would have gone straight to a couch/bed and go to work. Does that help or no?

once bringing her to the house i would've tried to be a little more aggressive with your tactics. Because you are pretty much homefree, i would've tried kissing her neck a lot more, placing her hands around me and caressing the contours of her body. i wouldn't either try to bounce from spot to spot in the house, this might drain all the energy that you have built up in the hook up.

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If you were goin at it like that.. and you got inside and were kissing like that.. do what any of these guys told you.. Another thing that drives a girl nuts.. when you are kissing and fondeling her... grab her by the ass.. pick her up and take here were you want to go.. She will kno what you want without having to rub her vag.. when you set her down take off your own shit start back were you left off and move towards her clothes.. Good luck