hi,

i've just recently experienced something again which I came across before, the only difference is,previously I used to fuck it up big time.
So heres my question,

Was at a club recently and a "9" asked me for a ciggarette.Usually I would give one without hestitation.But I know sometimes girls do this to pick you up (I asked a couple of females)...in anycase I responded with "I'll think about it".....she goes "please please give me a ciggarette (with this weird puppy look face)....I said "okay then we'll make a deal, I'd like your opinion on something, what do you think of my friends hair? (he had a MASSIVE mohawk that day).She says "It's really cool"....me..."come on, don't suck up to me now"....her "no for real, I really like it and he got my attention"....so I said "thanks for participating" (gave her ciggarette)....
after that she didn't stop looking at me and kept on talking to her friends, she kept on hinting for me to dance with her, but when I clicked out of AFC mode it was too late.But I was glad I didn't just give her the smoke.

What do you guys think of this?G|ood or Bad>
And what other things could I use in such a situation?

My wingman also came up with something the other day, a good opener, not sure where he got it from, but goes something like this:

"Hi, are you friendly?"

"Yes"

"Good, you have just qualified to get me a drink at the bar, as a reward you can get one for youself too"

what do you think of this opener?Haven't tried it yet, but keen to test it this week when I got out.

Let me know what you guys think.

Thks

I think is Okay , not the best but with a nice C&F atitude you can get a laugh from a girl , in your case you were doing really good but you missed moving to A2 (DHV stories , Neg's.)

You could use your friend opener with a story like this...


XF:What you think about his hair?

HB: Any answer

XF: Oh, You don't know what happen to me the other day in the barber shop , I was walking downtown and suddenly (DHV STORY).... etc... then NEG and move on to A3

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Iight wait wut do you mean by A1, A2, A3...etc? is this from the venusian handbook by Mystery? cause i downloaded it but haven't read it yet...

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Yeah it is from Mystery's book, it doesn't matter, here you can have a really quick reference.

A1- Opener : You open the group, with a comment, a question anything.

A2- Female to Male (Attraction): After opening the group you demostrate higher value (with stories, social proof, etc...) You use NEG's... Until you see that the girl gives out some IOI (indicators of interest).

A3- Male to Female (Qualification): After the IOI and when you feel the attraction, You move on to the qualification where you make her try to qualify on your standars and you show up your interest in the girl... You can use SOI, etc...

Okay Smoothz, now you can see what I'm talking about and why I pointed out the missing of the A2 phase on the stimboX FR (just after he opened, he should move on into s a DHv story or something like that.)

*NOTE: For those that don't know well the MM, you can say anythign after the opener, it doesn't matter what you say, you just have to keep the attention of the group or girl you jsut opened.

Hope this help all of you guys, any question or comemnts please feel free to send me a PM

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Thanx bud, much appreciated

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Hey quick question.. Mystery has an Ebook.. how much is it? Is it worth reading? Does he have a hardcopy I can buy?

I read the Game, so Im just wondering if this will also help. I am about to read the pickup artist by Terry Bisson and also some other book I ordered. NOt sure what I got.

it is definatly worth reading mystery method and the our good reviews on double your dating by david deangelo. check out some of ross jeffries works. check out the books "swinggcat Real World Seduction" and "juggler method". also carlos xuma "secrets of the alpha male" and John Alexander "How to Become an Alpha Male".

these our all books that have been recommended to me.

it is also worth looking in to books on body language and nlp.

good ones our "Kim McFarland & Tom Vizzini - Public speaking - Essential skills seminar" - this is good for learning how to walk and talk confidently and sets you exercises to follow to do this.

"Body Language How to read others thoughts by their Gestures" by allan pease - this book teahces you how to read other people by there body language


i hope this is helpful