Hey guys i just got back from party, i decided to put somestuff i learned to use at the party but i have a few questions. First of all im very happy with my self cause i opened up like 3 different girls, even though i didnt close any of them i kinda saw it as something that helped me boost my confidence and get over my social shyness. I talked to them thrw a neg at them here and there hpoefully they were actually negs iono i said them in playful ways hopefully they took it playfully. ok here are my questions, first how do u know if a girl is throwing IOIs at u it was a costume party so she asked to wear my hat/wig/glasses does this say ne thing by ne chance? other than that she seemed a bit like down but i dont think it was because of me though i didnt feel to reat that i wasnt able to change her mood. second question how do u know if you and a girl are in the confort stage what stuff do u look for? so basically i was happy with today even though i did have my lame moments where i got a compliment on my outfit like twice and both times i was stupid and just said thanks but its ok you live you learn....

Congrats on opening those girls! You may not have closed, but you said it yourself, you walked away happy tonight. Thats excellent.

I take it as an IOI when a girl asks(or demands) to take/wear something I have on. Last weekend at a party one girl wanted to wear my tie, I told her to go to the kitchen and make me a drink which she did. My target asked later on if she could untie it and wear it. I told her it would cost 5$. When she said no, I told her she owes me dinner if I let her do all that to my poor tie. That worked like a charm, I Just got back from her house tonight. Just view IOI's as anything she does that would show she has an interest! Seems obvious, but sometimes it's not. If she has some of that attraction body language(playing with her hair while talking to you...etc), asks you questions about yourself, re initiates conversation after you let it fall silent, gives great EC, the list goes on and on. I'm sure you can search up a ton of them here on the forum.

To answer your second question, I have read MM and know about his stages. However, I don't view an interaction as having those particular stages. That's just not how I game. Generally I wait for that hook point(where she decides she doesn't want me to leave), and follow up with a mix of C+F comments, and real questions. I find that humor builds comfort wonderfully for me.

~Muse

P.S. When I get compliments from girls I just say Thank You confidently, and shoot that person a smile. I've found that's plenty. Sorry for the long post but I hope it helps you.

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good advice... thanks i mean u said those could be like IOIs but for some reason i felt that they werent cause if she was interested wouldnt she not look like shes feeling a bit down? you know that threw me off alot