Hey

Ok here's the deal, I live in a small city called Perth in Western Australia. It's apparently the smallest town to be classified a city in the world. You could go around and call yourself mystery and people will be clueless.

My specific problem is here...
I am a good dancer right, not to brag but yea...People have commented on my dancing, and I learn at home once in awhile.
I like to rave also, I've been at every rave that has happened in the past half a year.

Only problem is, everytime I'm there...I can see girls eyeing me on the dancefloor. Sometimes I look back, sometimes I look away. It's funny cas' I see them come over in front of me and dance for a while (I dance by myself quite a bit because people just move around at raves). Lots of the time I make eye contact they are the ones to break it. They continue their dancing for around 1 minute or two then wander away, except the whole day or night, I can see them trying to look at me here and there.

Sometimes, I open by asking their friends to introduce me (I know a lot of ravers), other times...I just ask how's it going.

Here is what I've identified as the real problems, because i can't think of a solution.

1. A lot of people at raves are on Ecstasy
2. It's very loud.
3. My dancing shows so much confidence, yet my game is very below par...sort of contradictory in many cases.
4. Most of the time I myself am on drugs...

Anyone with some tips?

Don't do drugs, or if you do, then do very low amounts so that you are able to still function and think properly. The thing that makes a person a PUA isn't what they're wearing, its their minds, its what they know and how they respond and get people to respond to them. If you can't think clearly, then you can't be a PUA, I don't care how good you are, give Mystery a couple hits of acid and I can't imagine him getting anywhere.

Aside from that, its basically like going to a loud club (use the search tool) except, you've got the advantage of people being more friendly at raves, partly due to the culture and partly do to ecstacy and whatnot.

The easiest way is to open sets that are sitting on the side tired from dancing, or the people that like to watch, but don't interact (they love to talk to people though) and you can always just start dancing with girls and then pull them off the floor for a drink after a while.

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