Ok so I just started out in college in chicago, and obviously I'm looking to meet women and it seems like it should be easy, I mean its college, right?
Problem: I don't live on campus, I live in an apartment which makes it difficult for me to get pumped into the social pipeline of the campus, no one really knows me. I have a few friends in this city but very few that go to my school. and it seems like EVERY opportunity I have to talk to a woman I either don't, or I fail miserably. Any suggestions for me?

Is it mostly college kids at your apartment complex? Are there parties every night there? At my apartment complex, you can find people party hopping almost every night. I know not everyone likes to party, so if that isn't for you, join some clubs. Do you have a job?

Yeah dude, live in an apt myself off campus. I would definitly join some clubs, talk to people in classes, get a job on campus (as weak as food places are, you get to meet a fair amount of people + good to practice game on customers that come in). I mean if you don't already have some friends there, get involved and make some. And for the most part if it is a college age apartment complex, meet the neighbors, say hi to people walking around. It is amazing how far just being friendly to random people can get you. Good Luck brotha!

First off, the living off campus thing is like a double sided sword. On one hand you have the oppurtunity to host some pretty cool parties, but on the other hand you dont get thrown in the mix.

HOWEVER, this gives you a slight advantage in that you are NOT like everyother guy a college freshman (chick) will talk to...you have your "own place".

Be overtly socail with all your classmates, goto the cafe and open sets there. If you have any special talent (musical, magic tricks, acting, singing..etc), show off 1 day in front of the major dorm houses. Be fun, goto sporting events and open sets if sports are big at the college.

If you have a Myspace or Facebook give it out to anyone breatheing oxygen.

Before you know it you will have developed a socail circle and should start hosting parties at your place. DO NOT host a party til you have at least 15+ people that would definatly show up. DO NOT CHARGE the first party you throw. Make sure its a blast! that means music, dancing, booze, games.

If you get those 15 people to like your party then throw another, invite 30 people and tell them your only letting 20 in threw the door, and mean it. tell the 10 people they missed out but you'll let them know first next time...next time invite 40 but only let 30 in....

By the time you get to the 2nd or third party, if people really do like them, make it clear when you invite that girls are free to enter but dudes are 5 bux (if its a rich school charge 10). This will help it not become a sausage party.



Other than that work on your game, meet as many people as possible, and have fun doing it. If you are failing with women its because your still comming accross AFC. Read up and practice at places you dont generally goto. I was amazed at how using a simple opener, smile, poture, clothes, and then being AFC was a million times better then just being AFC.

Hope this helps, and dont forget to study for school