I have recently slept with a girl that I was talking to for a few weeks. We slept together on our second date. Could have on our first date but I told her we should wait a little bit. Heres what happened so far.

We went out week 1 on a friday -first date - she asked me to sleep with her but I said we should wait. A few days later she txted me and said we should go out on the weekend if I wanted to

Week 2 -friday - went out and slept together
saturday - went out again and slept together

week 3 - thursday - went out and slept together - could not have sex cause it was the time of the month so just did oral a few times.

week 4 - current. I want to keep it interesting and keep her guessing, should I be going out with her every weekend. I made sure not to go out with her last weekend so she knows I have a life. That was one weekend off from going out with her, is it okay to ask her out for this weekend or should I just wait for her to ask me out?
Id like to eventually move this to a more serious relationship... btw

Ive really never been in this situation so im not sure how to handle it.

I dont know that I should be asking her out every weekend..

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When she's guessing, you're safe. When she thinks you're safe, you're dead.

hang with her once a week some times twice
this week ask her out during the week not the weekend mix it up a little repeat this until she has a DTR with you
voila relationship !!!

this is my stragedy when i really like a girl although im enjoyn the single life more at the moment

I always end up sleeping over and really enjoy it. Should I not sleep over all the time. It seems like a great comfort builder, but would it be better to not sleep over every time she asks?

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When she's guessing, you're safe. When she thinks you're safe, you're dead.

thats really upto you floods7 i mean i dont see it doing any harm personally i wouldnt stay ever time i like to keep my girls guessing i would mix it up sometimes stay sometimes leave
try leaving when shes sleeping i did this once it work a treat i swear the chicks attraction grew alot after

only leave while shes sleeping once or twice in a year because if your doing it all the time shel start to think your only after sex and plus that your unreliable and have story planned when for when she asks why you left ?
the time i did it was because one of my buds got in some trouble

Gotcha...

I always end up asking her out. Once she said she wanted to go out if I did. But even in that case I made the plans and "asked her out". Whenever I ask her out she always says yes and is excited about it. But should I not ask her out again till she mentions it, so I dont keep asking her? Or am I over thinking this? and the man should always be asking out the girl?

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When she's guessing, you're safe. When she thinks you're safe, you're dead.

your overthinking dude it dosent really matter who asks who but i do prefer it when the girl asks me out once in awhile shows she interested upto you what you do in the end though your decision