I have been talking to this girl who is about a 9 that goes to my high school for about

a month and its safe to say we are going to be dating soon, and are currently

dealing, or as some would call it, are "exclusive" , anyway, the point is. iv had sex

with 1 other girl and she was my gf at the time, whenever we had sex it was

planned, we said we were ganna do it and we did it. now with this girl, i know she is

not a virgin and i know shes had sex with guys as 1 night stands and that sex is

not as big a deal to her as it is other girls my age... (17) ... so anyway, i wanna

close to deal with this girl... at a party or when i have her alone, and we're

making out, i have no clue what to do to get it from there into sex... what do i say

or do, im scared to grab her hand and put it on my package, and i dont want to

just start trying to take off clothes... i dont know cuz i havnt had experience. what

do i do to go from make out to sex with her, or if not sex, to other stuff and then

sex...?

One thing you could do would be keep the kissing going and just be touching her all over - her back, her face, her legs, everything and then work your hand down to between her legs. She will proabbly get the idea especially if she is a bit more experienced than you. If she doesnt like it or want it, she will push your hand away. If she doesnt, rub her crotch area outside her clothes and if she likes this, work your way inside her clothes but still outside her undies and then if she likes this, slip a finger inside her undies and go for gold. You will know from her body language what she likes and what she doesnt. If you start by fingering her, she will get the idea and will probably start using her hands in your downstairs area as well... It will then escalate from there. Good luck!