Hey guys, just wanted to say im pretty new to all of this. Ive currently read Double youre dating, the mystery method and am currently reading Magic bullets and i really feel like they are changing my life and can see techniques starting to work i just have a few questions.
First of all, i mainly go to nightclubs to work my game now i understand that youre meant to approach groups with a high energy level, now i was thinking that sometimes i approach a group with a bit too much energy. Obviously you have to shout in a nightclub so its very hard i find to create rythem with how you speak and to speak from youre diaphram, i dont know if this is just practice but i always find myself kinda souting and i seem a little bit to hyper maby? I was wondering how i can avoid/change this and if this is a bad thing? I also must really get out of the habit of leaning in when the target is talking or when i wana say something but its just difficult with the loud music.
Second i opend up a group of girls simply to make my target who was sitting accross the room nd watching me jealous. This group of girls i opened with an oppinion opener and they were all being pretty bitchy to me. I stayed calm and friendly, threw in a few negs and kept smiling cos i thought wlel im nt trying it with these girls anyways they are simply to create a jealousy plotline. Now say i wasnt creating a jealousy angle and i really was opening this set to try it on what do you do when you get nothing but bitchy comments. Does it simply mean forget them and move on, something wrong with the approach or do i just need to try and gain controle? As an example, none of the girls seemed interested, one just kept saying 'yeah; yeah; yeah; in a sarcastic way after everything i said and the others i felt were intrested but because this one friend of theirs was putting me down were totally put off. So whats the best way to overcome this type of set full of bitches lol.
And third and final, a girl ive kinda been gaming but havent kissed or nething yet has accepted my offer to go out for a random drive with me. Obviously im planning on going for a drink etc. Now i think ive attracted her, shown DHV and i think im in the process now of comfort and qualification but im not sure. What are some things to look out for and try whilst im out with her tonight. I know nothing should ever be a big deal, this is why i dont want to go through the stereo typical date of having a rly good time, dropping her off and getting a kiss. But how do i change this as it seems the only real route. and am i really into the comfort stage by this point? surely a girl only goes out with u when they are attracted to u in some way? I mean ive not nearly spent enough time with her to even be considered in the friend zone.
All help appreciated, glad to be part of this PUA lifestyle it really does work and it really does make you feel better as a person
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