I noticed alot of my friends just go up to girls and start grinding and dancing with them.. it surprisingly works.. HOwever, alot of times the girl's gf pulls her away...

SO whats the best way to start dancing with a girl.. are you better off asking her, or is it better just to go for it and start grinding up against her...

I know that some girls will dance with you and some girls won't.. But if you start off on an intrusive level, it will screw up your chances with her for the night.. At the same time, asking her, sort of makes you look less confident...

So ask or don't ask...

if you really want to see a girl's gf rag on you then try refusing the girl when she tries to pull you off your chair to go dance with her...

"a beautiful girl is trying to take you for a dance... you should go!"

... ok, your question...

If you are gonna "ask", I would say don't ask... say "let's go dance". just my 2 cents

Thanks for your reply, but I really dont understand what do you mean "try refusing the girl when she tries to pull you off your chair."

I am assuming that ou see a hot girl on the dance floor (that you never met before) dancing with friends (or by herself), and just going up to dance with her (contact dancing).

I was just saying that a girl's friend can really rag on you if the girl tries to pull you off your chair to the dance floor when you are sitting at a bar or something.... and you resist going with her (i.e. stay seated when she's tugging your arm forcefully)

ah... I misread your question... I was assuming you meant what is better:

1) go to dance floor and start dancing with a girl; OR

2) asking a girl to go dance with you

now I see it is just (1) that you are asking about, and just whether or not to ask her before you start dancing with her. Well personally I don't see what is wrong with just starting to dance with her without asking. If the girl is into dancing with you, why not try to pull her back in when her friend is pulling her away?

Your right but theres some girls that don't like random dude dancing with them. i think the best thing to do is test to see how close shell get...