| If a guy plays it beta, he will never be anything but a friend. The example you provided sounds like Zan's example of a lot of high, and no low. High energy is the joking around, charming, pleasurable company side of the masculine energy. Low energy is the direct, sexual, and penetrating energy that conveys sexual interest. If your too high, you'll stay a friend. If your too low, you'll be the creepy perv that is incapable of obtaining women. A mixture of both is healthy and very necessary.
Being alpha is important, but being able to move beyond this construct is something men have to do for themselves (i.e. Learn how to be alpha, then stop putting so much emphasis on who is alpha. If your running a tight game, it doesn't matter. You should be able to game next to other alpha's and be equally bad-ass.)
Needless to say, I think if you had an option for neither, I would have picked that. However, given the polling options, I picked alpha because the beta guy doesn't have enough sexual undercurrent to show these women that he can be a lover. _________________ Crowd to Crowd
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