First let me introduce myself since i haven't yet and I don't want to double post, I'm from Las Vegas and I'm in the biggest high school in the county with more then 3600 students...Trying to keep the intro basic, don't wanna waste anybodies time so if you guys want to know more check out myspace( Myspace dot com/wtfistom ) Oh btw i know that if I'm an athlete I'll raise my cha

I signed up for the elective Auto Tech since i love cars...there is usually not that many girls in Auto Tech...in my case there is only one, one person out of 32 students in that class is a girl so there is at least 4 - 5 guys talking to her at the same time, 2 or 3 of them seem to be pretty experienced with talking to girls...I think I've seen IOIs cuz most of the times i look at her, she'll be either looking at me or turning around to look at me, and last class i felt like she was trying to keep up the pace with me after the bell rang like she wanted me to talk with her. I'm already bad enough opening and keeping a conversation going without competition...What's really bumming me tho is that even tho i think i see IOIs i still can't build up courage to talk to her even after the bell rings and she's alone walking to class(I wanna try and talk to her in class tho since all I have is a mere 2 minute break between classes)

Any advice?

Oh btw i know that if I'm an athlete I'll raise my chances of getting the girls in high school but unfortunately my teachers wont let me play cuz of the grades...=/ but ill work on that and i'm positive I can make both soccer(im from brazil and been playing since i was about 4 - 5 years old) and the wrestling team...

dude shes giving you every indication to just open your mouth

this is a bit harsh but grow a pair downstairs

youd rather go down swinging than strike out looking

I know :/
but i kinna need advice on how to get rid of the AMOG's

well technically you cant get rid of them because they are going to be there everyday until class is over, but you said she kinda strolls to catch up to you through the hallway after class

theres an IOI if you are truthful to yourself and an opportunity

you said she also walks along to class....no cockblockers so theres your chance....just do it, she wont reject you

Try to get cool with them in front of her, while paying less attention to her. I found that when you do that she begs for your attention and when you give it yo her and she responds the other guys might still try but useually walk away.

alright, thx for the advice guys
Imma meet her first when she's walking to class then get with her in class the next day.
anymore advice on what to do is welcome

Something I do about the AMOG is I give them recognition for being there (like talk to them and stuff) but I don't let them be like the BIG alpha male. I make clear to them that that is my place. So even if they are Alpha males outside of my circle of influence, if they get within it they are just Bèta males. You can accomplish this in loads of ways, depening on your style and personality. What I do is verbally and intellectualy degrade them to Bèta. Like with the interraction with women this happens in mere seconds. A good way to degrade them is by making them admire you. Do things like make the women show IOI's for you. OR talk to the guy(s) a bit, If you have superior conversation skills they will just give in.

dude im a newb myself so i dont want to give you to much advice, but let me just say fuck i wish i was in highschool. like seriously, you will never ever ever get a chance to be around so many girls, in such a close enviornment. when your in your 20s, what you wont remember is the girls that shot you down, the amogs that brushed you off or beat you up. what you will remember is all the hot girls you banged, whatever you could possibly be afraid of, really isnt a big deal. GO FOR THE GIRL, stop waiting, your time in highschool is short. think about the 3 second rule and use it in a highschool format

anyways i truley wish you the best of luck with this one and many more

,your friend
emillio

Alright, you don't want to seem like the awkward creeper that's stalking her, so get out there as fast as you can. Just straight up show her your not a chicken and you'll cool with this kinda stuff, or else she'll see that your kinda weak, so to speak, and she'll walk all over you. Just get out there.

If it's builidng up the courage, what you can do is talk to some people before. This should get you sorta hyped up (it's almost like peer pressure, but in a good way) so if your in a good mood, you'll be more likely to do it. Also, if you REALLY need to, count to 3 in your head and just go. If you fail, then... your gonna be a virgin forever. Good luck

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Yeah the 3 second rule is REALLY important. If you last longer than 3 sec before even saying hi, just go work on the next. ( there are exceptions but in those exceptions you already use body language to kinda start a conversation)
Another great tip I have is to listen to some music or watch a movie RIGHT before you go sarge. (a movie that gets you into the right mindset so not Dwawn of the dead or something, but more like the chonicles of riddic or somethign with will smith) watching a movie will make you copy a bit of the body language of the actor. So movies/music are powerfull tools as they get you into a higher mindset and thus are more likely to approach.

ye i talked to her, really cool chick, easy to talk to, always smiling, easy target

alright thats good news, remember to be consistent and good luck. run some routines

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First, relax. She took Elective Auto Tech... you two should have tons to talk about and she obviously is interested.

Second, the AMOGs. Beat them to her. Start "running" into her before class a few days a week, strike up the conversation and continue it INTO class. Then make sure you strike up a conversation as your leaving class as well. This will show that she is coming to class With you and Leaving with you and that is a huge boost to your status in the class as well as with her. She will come to associate going to that class with you. (just make sure she is having fun in the class that way she is associating good feelings with you.) IF she is hating the class, talk to her as she is leaving. It won't help as much with the AMOGs but it will help more with her.

Hope this helps.

EvoJ

Dont be like them..
Be different act like shes nothing to u..
They are droolig over her like a pillow..
Dont let her charm affect u.
Make her work for u Neg her if she takes it as an insult compliment her personality not her looks shes already used to that by the other guys..
u dont want her to see u like the rest..
shes already looking at u..
she might be looking at u because she knows u get jealous when they talk to her or she wants u because ur not eating out of her palm..
Shes attracted to u..

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