Alright so im at the hooka bar with my wing dressed in some of the most rediculous clothes ever and my friend goes and asks a group of four girls if we can sit with them.. they say sure.. so here were are introducing ourselves and i already see the girl i want to target. tall, white, golden/brown hair, and deep green/blue eyes.

her loud annoying friend said" hey why do you wear glasses at night? hahah you are kanye west..." i agreed.I wondered if she was going to be a problem or not.. i meant to pay as little attention as possible to the girl i wanted.. whos name i could not remember..and then they start talking about" animal forethought".

i wanted to make fun of them for it but my target was passioniate about that shit so i simply asked her" why do you know this" she told me she was an anthropology major.. Now we had ssomething to talk about, i didnt mean to fall into such a deep conversation with her about evolution,religion,dna, and human-ape likeness , but hey.. whatever works right? i told her " its rare to be able to have such an intellectual conversation these days......with a girl. she was humored and offended at the same time.

i asked her... " Do you like magic?"

at this point my wing looked at me like " are you F'ing serious...."

i used some david blane act where i turn kings into queens.. i took this opportunity to gaze her in the eyes deeply and hold her hand telling her to grip tightly on the card.. she was in shock when it was done and asked for another.. so i did.

luckily they had to leave abrubtly so i got up and said to her " hey.. i enjoyed that conversation we had earlier and id love to have another." as if she knew what i was implying she said " Sure! " i pulled out my phone and she did her thing, even proceeding to call her phone from it so she could have my number..

trickytricky.

this has to be what i am the worst at.
how long do i wait to call her...
id imagine we would go out somewhere..


anyone with awesome followup skills care to help me out

Call her after you get her number.

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Walk Hard

dont call. do text message play! it needs less commitment and it works every time. this is what you should do with txts:

1. Re-initiate mutual contact
2. Increase the frequency and intensity of communication
3. Maintain or build attraction
4. Maintain or build comfort
5. The other side of the bridge

1. Your first text is crucial. She has to respond and it has to point the two of you in the right direction. The best way to do this is to use callback humor. Callback humor involves recalling topics, ideas, generalities, or social or geographic stereotypes relating to your original conversation that you can twist into a joke. Advanced men will actually deliberately "seed" the initial conversation with opportunities for callback humor. - If you're stuck, then A) plan to introduce subjects for callback humor next time and B) for now, send something simple like "Nice to meet you [name]. Have a good night. -[Your name]."


2. After the first exchange of text messages, your goal is to build her commitment level to meeting up with you again by increasing the frequency and intensity of your messaging. Keep the conversation moving forward by making statements instead of asking questions as much as possible. Questions put her on the spot and repeated questions risk putting her in defensive "interview mode" which isn't exciting or attractive. Keep any questions light and simple so that if she didn't answer, it's not like she's blowing you off, and don't ask too many boring yes or no questions.

3. Presumably, she was attracted to you when you met, but this dissipates over time. You can't build a ton of attraction in text messages but you can build some, and you can use texts to bring her attraction levels back up to the level where you first met and you can maintain it there. This means do:

- Role plays
- Random childish jokes
- Light sexual teasing or misinterpretation
- Funny or teasing pet names
- Invoking commonalities you found when you met

4. In addition to maintaining and building attraction, you need to maintain and build comfort. This is actually easier, since building comfort is as much about what you don't do as what you do. In general, just act like a positive, non-threatening environment in her life. As long as your conversation is going well, time and communication will build and maintain comfort for you.
Somthing like: "What's up crazy? [or suitable nickname] Just saw a guy walking an English bulldog like you said you wanted. That poor thing was hideous. What are you thinking?!" [obviously this was to someone who said she wanted an English bulldog]

5. Here are some examples of non-specific invitations. The [random content] means that you have something - anything - in that slot so the whole text isn't the invitation. Any of the examples of good text messages that we've already seen would make good [random content] here and the non-specific invitation can be tacked onto the end:
"[Random content]," let's get together next week..."
"[Random content]," if we don't hang out soon then I'm going to start cheating on you."
"[Random content]," tell your interns to pencil me in for next week or I'm putting "single" back up on facebook."


hope it helps

If you want more details or examples pm me.

Just call her and tell her you like her. Ask her if she wants to do soemthing. if she does she will say yes. If she doesn't she won't answer.

Then keep on going.

Don't play games. If you start with a game like that you will end the relationship soon after because you wont know what to do when you run out of games.

Don't be so Naive.

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Walk Hard

who is talking about a relationship? when you just meet the girl the second time and you didnt even k-close. it doesnt mean anything. second time you have to k-close. the third time f-close. that is all. if you connect during the process maybe a relationship.

right on thx man... i texted her but she didnt respond lol.. guess i gotta move on to the next...

What did you text?

"i was like i saw some cute monkeys on the animal planet that reminded me of you, whats up"

hahaha. thats funny xD but i guess she doesnt want to be called a monkey.
she HAS to respond to the first text so dont neg her. just for the future.

i love u