So,

I met this girl online ~9 months ago. We've been talking almost every night since then....shes really into me and makes it pretty obvious. Problem is, she lives really freakin far away (outside of driving distance).

I threw out hints pretty often that I think she should come up and visit me, and she usually just giggles. As far as me just going down to her...she lives in the middle of nowhere...I work a lot, she doesnt and her jobs is flexible.

So, she needs to come up to me...but to be honest I'm not 100% sure she wants to do that. I think she may kinda fear that we wont get along as well as we do on the phone? Maybe....

If shes not willing to meet up though, then I'll be wasting time...

Anyway, how do I get her up here...or even approach the topic without sounding like a needy wuss?

Is it really that bad to just suggest it to her? If she's really interested she'll come for sure.

You should just tell her you'd like to meet her in person. Go from there. Like you said if she's not willing to meet up you're wasting your time, so it's worth finding out.

I've had this too and I just told her we should meet, we were pretty much 'in love' back then though...as far as being in love with eachother on the internet can happen.
Make her see what she would miss if she doesnt come over (without actually trying to convince her directly )

its been 9 months...


like seriously?

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