Hi guys,

Theres a HB8 at work who is a really cool girl, shes 23 (two years older than me), has a great personality and is pretty hot. We have been chatting for quite a while lately over facebook and at work and shes very easy going. I have been thinking of hitting on her for quite a while but haven't really understood if we are friends or if we shud be something more.

Today at work I asked her what she had been up to over the weekend and she told me she went to see a new film out that so I todl her that it looked really good and I wanted to go see it and she told me that although she has seen it she would like to see it again if id like to go with her! I told her that would be great and then we were seperated at work to do different things.

Im not too sure if she asked me this as a friends thing to do or as a date? I have rarely had girls ask me out on dates lol so Im not too sure. What would be the best ways to see if this is a friend thing or a date? Ile text her tonight to ask when she wants to do it but I need to know how to approach the situation

Cheers all!

Don't ask her when is good for her, find a time and tell her. Be like, "I'm thinking blah blah time on blah blah day, whats your address so I know where to pick you up." And don't worry about if its a friend thing or a date, its all the same more or less. Just remember to use kino, play a little cocky/funny and enjoy the show. Although, I wouldn't recommend a movie for a first date. There is very little conversation going on and its not a very "fun" SPAM. I'd invite her for drinks/food beforehand, but its up to you.

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Wow quick reply! Thanks!
Yeah I dont like going to the cinema on a first date either so ile ask her to go for drinks with me before/after!

definietly as a friend thing. Just play it cool and escalate from there

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don't see it as a date and don't have expectations, your goal should be having fun.... just kino a bit and tease.

well, never date in the first place, too much pressure on both parties.

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