Its clear that gaming younger girls vs older involves deploying a different strategy when it comes to sex...

F-closing an 18-19 yr old has proven to be alot more tricky for me requiring a further 'skillset' if you like. Due to her age she may still be very frigid..OR alternatively may have some experience, but you never know this. Something I noticed with youngins is that sex is a lot more of a touchy subject compared to gaming say a 25 yr old where sex banter occurs fairly naturally and they are alot more responsive (and yes its obvious why, they have experience so are more open to it).

As a result, with younger girls I always seem to steer clear of getting too sexual (while chatting) as I dont want to scare them off as they KNOW what a 28 yr old male is expecting. Its like im subtley testing the waters constantly to test their response/compliance which annoys me a bit.

how do you go about this without having to hold back, the word calibration comes to mind!

Well, I'm 21, so I dont have the same problem you do. I'm usually openly sexual about everything. Its what I do now. I used to not, because I thought it was "taboo" then I realized that I was living in a little filter, and I repressed my sexual self, that isn't healthy. So I'm VERY open now, I make sexual jokes. . . more often then not, and when courting a girl, I usually play little games that have ALOT of sexual flare.

Now this is where things get a little interesting. Because of my maturity and confidence, alot of people see me as an older male then I am now. . . not too much older, like 24-25. I dont see this as a problem, it means that I have a level head enough to be able to interact with a very WIDE set of individuals. This is just my take on things.

I understand that you want to stay calibrated, but you are also suppressing who you are. I would tell you to stay true to yourself man. If you scare off the youngins, well that just means they weren't ready for something like that anyway. MY best course of action is to show each woman I meet, that sex is a good thing. There are several women I know, at least around here, that have NEVER had an orgasm, and well, I'm happy to help.

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A 25 year old single woman is considered an old maid in most of the world. Of course they want sex. They need to have a kid by that age. American women wait and wait. They will always find a pathetic loser to marry them and spend many thousands of dollars on fertility SPAM. What a joke.

Dude . . . not sure which chick fucked you up so bad but you are one skewed up nut. Also . . . if you don't mind me asking . . . What the FUCK are you doing in a PUA forum?

Nothing I have ever seen you write has ANYTHING to do with pick up. Why not just go to some European Prostitute Exchange Forum and have your self a ball? I just don't get it. You are like a hick deer hunter who likes to hang out at PETA cocktail parties.

To the OP,

Yes and no.

As long as you play the role of the "older" guy who knows EVERYTHING of the World, everything will be fine. You just pull her panties down as if that is what ALL COOL PEOPLE of the Earth do and they will always go with it.

Of course the older girls don't have to be so up tight about it. They've already had plenty affairs and one night stands. They know the rules. You go with it and they'll go with it.

With younger girls, you basically INSTRUCT them that all smart, mature, educated, Worldy girls FUCK who ever they want to fuck and they will go with it. (You do this with action and not words) NO GIRL desires to be a hick backwoods country girl. This is one of the biggest fears of a girl . . .

Well put. That is a very powerful description. Most material out there doesn't cover this concept. A woman wants to know that you know what you are doing at all times. It is very unattractive to be confused or lost in social situations. This is what makes a man smooth. Not being thrown off guard or overreacting to all the little things life throws at you. This is one of the few benefits of getting older, you get wiser too. You have had so many experiences and been so many places and been around so many different people, that everything seems to be a matter-of-fact, been there done that.
Actually, that's the same reason why its easier to game older women, getting picked-up is not new to them, they've done it all before and they will do it all again, no surprises and no fear of the unknown.

thanks all, some good info here that I will most certainly use.