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PostPosted: Tue Aug 25, 2009 5:40 pm 
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I am willing to risk my friendship with her.. But do you think i should go in for the kiss directly after the cuddle??


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You'll have to judge it. You can definitely tell when she's ready to be kissed/wants you to. Grab the tips of her hair and mention how soft it is. If she likes it(Smiles, blushes, etc..) you're good to go.

I personally think you'll be able to build attraction a lot easier by going and just having fun doing some activity like I mentioned earlier. During a movie, it's generally accepted you'll shut up for the thing with one or two comments tossed between each other. The focus is on the movie playing, and not necessarily the game you're spitting. Do you see how watching a movie at your place is going to raise the difficulty here?

You're only real friend in that situation is going to be kino. That's assuming you're comfortable enough to try that. I agree with Kalel with this one. You'll have to risk that awkwardness you think will arise just going to hang out.

It's a hell of a lot more awkward hanging out with someone you've met ONCE before and for a small amount of time (Bars, street, mall, etc...)

Just go for it man, you've got some loss here, but as the saying goes. No risk - No Reward.


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I was in the same scenario with a beautiful Argentinian girl!

Basically start cooking, and go over to her door, knock and say, hey, do you know how to make ___________ whatever it is your cooking, bring her over, have a chat vibe, bust her and teeze her a little! and if anything happens :) it happens.. watch movies together etc..

there is no better way.

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Yeah this probably isn't going to work and will majorly affect your relationship with a close friend.

Unless you already know she wants you, and you want to be her BF going for a female friend is a BAD BAD BAD BAD BAD BAD and did I mention BAD idea.

There are ways to do it (like Breakthrough Comfort) but it's ALWAYS risky and usually is coming from a place of scarcity, as opposed to some sort of mythic connection that you want to believe is there.

Sorry to be the bubble burster.

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So.. a couple of things have happened.. Shes written to me a couple of times now about watching that movie.. and were still talking about how to solve it... Now today she wrote to me that her friend wanted to see me.. is this a shit test or what?? I dont want her friend.. shes like a HB6.. How do i solve this?? And i think the target is interested in me.. cuz shes started writing to me alot and shit.. and ive got her laughing all the time.. But i havent actually seen her...


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cmon guys neeed some help... time is running....


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Now today she wrote to me that her friend wanted to see me.. is this a shit test or what??
Most probably.
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But i havent actually seen her...
What the fuck man? You haven't even seen her? I don't get how you can be this tightened up about a person you haven't even met. If she want to se a movie, go for it ffs.

I don't get what's stopping you?


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I ment i havent seen her lately.....

But what if her friend really likes me??? And she brings her.... What to do??


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But what if her friend really likes me??? And she brings her.... What to do??
Having 2 girls like you instead of possibly one, isn't a problem. She's probably just bringing her friend along because she feels just as nervous alone with you, as you do with her, and bringing a friend is her way of taking some of the tension out of the interaction. Be nice and very friendly to her friend. If her friend likes you, even better. It's like her friend approves of you, therefore you must be a higher value man, it's called social proof. Women often like guys, simply because one of their friends like them. Also if the friend seem like a better catch, go for her instead. There is no reason to put all your eggs in one basket. Keep your options open and play the situation out by ear. But most importantly. Just relax and have fun.


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