hey im a 14 year old guy. and i have been studying so many methods and routines from mysterymethod to lovesystems for about 2 years. i have tremendous approach anxiety and social anxiety and i have done nothing about it. any tips?

In my opinion, there's really no easy way to solve your approach anxiety. You really just have to start doing it.
Take the 3-second Mystery approach rule to heart. When you walk into a room and see your target, you cannot waste time thinking about it. You will run the risk of over-thinking it, or you might become just that creepy guy in the back staring at her. You have three seconds to find your target and begin talking to her.
Another Mystery Method is to wear a conversation piece, ie Flashy jewelry, a strange shirt, hat, or whatever. This gives you a conversation starter for a girl to approach you. "What's with that hat?" and you reply: "My mom gave it to me, she said it'd bring me good luck. Doesn't look like it's working though..." (Give a smile, and quickly use an openner of your own) "Say, while you're hear do you mind if I ask you a question...?"
That might be something to try, however Peacock theory might be awkward to use when you're in high school. If your high school was anything like mine, people know how you dress and if you peacock in front of them one day, you might run the risk of just being alienated...
Good luck though.

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thanks i really appreciate it. that helps a tremendous amount. u seem like u are pretty good at game. do u mind if we private message. just in case i have any quesitons or need tips or something.

There's no real way to solve approach anxiety besides just going out and doing it.
The only tips I could offer are from Mystery's Methods. Firstly, use and adopt the three-second approach. You have three seconds from the moment you spot a target to walk up and use an openner. The more time you spend thinking about it, the more likely you'll talk yourself out of it.
Also, Mystery talked about and very much practices Peacock Theory. This is wear you wear something that could be seen as odd or flashy. These are good for conversation starters if a girl decides she wants to approach you. For example you can wear a flamboyant hat, or flashy jewelry or a shirt. Then when they approach they say something like "Hey, what's with the hat?" And you can reply: "My mom gave it to me, she said it'd bring me good luck...doesn't seem to really be working though...." Be sure to offer a smile at this point. Quickly jump into an openner so you don't lose her attention. She's already come all the way over to talk to you, so keep her interested with, "Say, while you're here, do you mind if I ask you a question?" Then ask something. Chances are she'll be interested in just hearing you talk.

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dude, you started this at 12?

who the fuck has social anxiety at 12?



how about you just be a kid for a few more years? leave all this behind you and revisit it when you're a junior. seriously.

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im in high school now and i know a lot of routines and methods. ive been studying this along time and i just want to get out and have a life of its own. i want to have a tremendous amount of girls in my life and i want to be really good at this. and u know wat people say. the good always start young. so why not?

because your life will become unbalanced and you'll wake up one sunday morning wondering who the fuck you are and where your life went wrong.

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well of course im going to do school. that my first priority. but i mean like why not have girls in ur life also.

you started studying pick-up when you were 12.....


and you still can't muster up the courage to approach....in fucking middle school.....



clearly you have performance anxiety from building this up in your head.


For your own good. drop pickup for AT LEAST 2 more years. good ol' fashioned highschool will give you some of the experience needed to actually make sense of pick-up.

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At least wait until you have pubic hair