Being caught is a very negative term when refering to pick-up. It makes it sound like you're doing something wrong and you shouldn't be doing it at all. We all know pick-up isn't wrong or immoral, but woman do. So my question is: can you get "caught" using PUA tacticts and how do you deal with it if a girl does? Thanks guys!

Havik

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Were does the bold part comes from? Some women loves to be caught. It means they are a catch.

That boing said, you will find around the forums posts about people using the game and being called on it. Some have comebacks, some don't. Make sure you have one.

ie.
Her: Are you runing the 'cube' from that Game book on me?
You: Oh, so that's where it comes from. A guy I know told me about it and I found it interesting

or

You: Yup. That book was a good read. I was sceptical on that cube thing so I looked it up. Tried it on some of my friends and it turns out to be pretty accurate.

My man had it spot on here:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cQ4axo9rmJY

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Haha nice vid man. Ya I've seen those comebacks all over before but I had a run in with a girl that knew. I was in a club and approached a three set, walked a little bit past them, looked over my shoulder, and said "hey I need you're opinion on something real quick." She asked me to repeat myself, so I said "I need a woman's perspective on something real quick. My buddy..." and as soon as I said the last bit, she just leaned back, put on a very smug/bitchy kind of smile, and just waved goodbye to me. What would you guys do in a situation like this?

Havik

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turn to her friends haha

clearly she wasn't the target, otherwise why would you be talking directly to her?

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yeah- you should have some sort of witty response ready for something like that. If you want- you can just be like "pick up? nah I have a girlfriend- but i really want you to tell me something...." and then go on with what you ask.


The thing is- you gotta work on everything being natural and not robotic and/or seem like what you're gonna say is predetermined.

For example- don't say "i need your opinion on something", just go over there and say "hey!- my friend just got a call from his girlfriend and she said __________, what should he do" or whatever. Just go in there and basically be in a position where you command attention and you shouldn't be shrugged off so easily anymore unless the girl really doesn't wanna talk.

But like I said - it's gotta look and feel natural. And don't use the lines everyone else is using. You can use those lines....but say it like YOU would. If it looks and feels natural, then it shouldn't come across as a trick or gimmick and you shouldn't be getting busted on it.

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Thanks a lot for all of your feedback! It really helps.

Havik

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Yes I constantly make funny observations, say smart things, have witty comebacks, etc it makes you less boring and I do not need to give the girl my credit card details.
Most of the success I find comes through confidence and how you carry yourself, you can say anything to her but if you come up to her like your big almighty swinging dick of the earth that has decided to grace her with your presence then you will fail less times then using can lines which has a constant demand for new material as more and more girls become aware of the game and constant routine lines look at Style he invented a lot of stuff and he went out sarging *shudders* and found robitic Neil Strauss clones destroying Hollywood.

From the other thread where you mentioned you failed, it does show potential and a good level of confidence as you still went out there and approached several girls regardless of silverback gorilla amogers in set.

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