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PostPosted: Tue Aug 25, 2009 8:01 pm 
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Today was the first day of first semester and I already have a female class mate that i would like to aproach. I first noticed her glancing at me during second hour, so i glanced at her a couple times(maybe four or five haha) to see if she was looking at me and sure enough everytime i looked at her she quickly looked away. Then when i got to my four period she was in there aswell and she instantly looked at me as i walked in the room, so i said what the hell and sat next to her. I didnt say anything to her like an idiot, wish i wouldve but there still is time. After about 5 mins of just sitting there before class started she took off her hoodie and was just in a tanktop, showing her "figures". Anyway im wondering if any of this Is a sign that she is possibly interested?

But anyway a little about me I find myself a good looking guy based off i have had no problems in the past getting girl friends and or one night stands(which i try to stay away from). But i was in a relationship for about two years, and feel i dont have the same "game" and or confidence i used to once have.

This is how i was thinking of aproaching her my probaly sitting next to her again in my fourth hour and just basicly saying to her im joe whats your name? and saying i think your in my science class? then going to what do u think off our science teacher? and asking her if she likes the class, or thinks its going to be hard....etc having her talk more than I. But lets say this goes well and she says i think it might be hard you and i will say yeah idk maybe we can help each other with homework or what not... but where do i go if the convo goes quite and or please tell me if this is a good aproach or give me possibly better aproaches you feel i could use thanks, JOE


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Nonono! Never ever talk about boring conversations as what classes she is in and if she thinks it will be hard. It will not give her a real impression of you. Instead, I encourage you to ask her name and state your observations. For instance: How other people in the class might be, a fun story to tell or similar.

The best key to school-game is as far as I've noticed to be living in your own reality and making her laugh. I've seen tendencies with a lot of girls that if you always follow them around, or doing everything they want you will quite quickly head into the friend-zone. Instead you should do the opposite and make her work a bit for you. Most girls will be likely to do that, as long as their interest towards you is on the upper side of the scale.

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PostPosted: Tue Aug 25, 2009 8:55 pm 
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Dude same exact situation I'm in. Check the topic I posted yesterday for professional answers. Not 100% but I'm sure that college game is like high school game so pm me nd we can work through this together to see what works and what doesn't. This girl is definitely IOIing you nd she is waiting for you to open her. Ive experienced this multiple times and the best way to act is to just approach. You did good to sit next to her but I hve to say that since you didnt want to say anything dumb you might have lost your chance to sit next to her again(I kno how it feels when you sit next to a chick nd you wnna say something but you just cant think of the right words, this happened earlier today in my 3rd hour). As for the conversation you have in mind, just about everybody in school uses those universal topics. If she likes you then it wont matter really what your opener is but to be on the safe side just think of something original or use a canned opener. I know its harder than it sounds bcaz it was my second day at skool today nd I'm still trying to think of a non AFC opener. Ill tell you when I come up with one. If the conversation goes quite cut the thread and paste a new one, "Yo craziest thing happened to me this summer!" or "Its amazing how much you mature from grade one all the way to_____!" The "maybe we can help each other with homework or what not..." is (srry) major AFC bcaz you just met nd by trying to arrange something that soon you will come off as try hrd. If you wnna collab then hit me up.

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PostPosted: Wed Aug 26, 2009 12:29 am 
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yeah i hear what u guys are saying about opening up with a typical boring convo, so i think ill change it up by just greeting her, asking where she is from, if this is her first year of college and then hopfuly there is someone in the room i can drop a joke about to possibly make her laugh. lets say that works and she laughs..., where would i bring it next?


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PostPosted: Wed Aug 26, 2009 12:56 am 
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Tell a funny story that happened to you or a friend over the summer. Then ask her what she did with her summer. If she didn't do anything interesting, neg her with, "Wow...Your cute but not that interesting, huh?"

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Continually get her laughing. That is probably all you need to know, if you make her laugh and still are able to go along with your studies it should not be a big problem. Remember to bring through the attractive self though, body-language has so incredibly much to say in every situation.

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