i realised I aint getting many replies as my previous post was a bit long winded and drawn out...so to cut to the chase....

i gamed this girl over the weekend (super bitch shield this one has but managed to break her down, shes VERY cocky)...number closed after reaching hook point, got chatting the next day, sent a text msg to her telling her to bring her friends out to club X this fri as we're probably going to be there...she replied saying 'maybe maybe...'...i replied with, 'no, you MUST come. Great I'll see you there then chow'.


1. I cant decide whether its a good thing to assume her coming along in my last text msg? or do you think this lowers my value and makes me seem a bit too keen for her? Either that or it displays confidence that I wont take no for an answer.

2. The cocky/bitchy banter sometimes go's a bit far from her side so i was thinking that the next time she gets hectic with me I will say to her...'hey do you ever have anything nice to say? or are you just like this with me because you're highly attracted to me '. im wondering if I should call her out on this. i know shes interested so maybe calling her out on this wouldnt be a bad thing and she would stop her her bitch game as every time she go's into bitch mode she will know that she is revealing the attraction she has for me.

I know you guys are bored to this answer, but you are super hyper ultimately over thinking.

1. She will come if she likes you, you invited her. Your mindset should be "Im going to have fun, its only plus if she comes, Im not going there to wait for her. She was cool, so it would be nice to meet her again, but if she doesnt show up, Im going to find better one." Man, you are confident, do how you feel, let her come to your reality, dont go to her.

2. Go ahead, make her qualify herself. But it might be that its her nature so dunno.

Good advice for you: THINK LESS, DO MORE, no offense bro!

thanks for the post bro.

i probably am over analyzing youre right...i was just wondering if insisting that a girl comes along (ie. no you MUST come along, great I'l see you there then would convey confidence, or needyness. guess it could be taken both ways.

In general I am doing exactly as you say in terms of bringing her into my reality...I really wont be effected if she doesnt come to the club/pub or not. i know i'll be there with my mates with plenty other women to speak to anyway, its always like that. I always make a big point not to put too much emphasis/importance on one girl.

youre right though, if she is keen she will come. (unless her friends dont want to come along and as a result stops her from coming too)

thanks again man

Np.
Because its txt message, you cant show your bodylanguage that shows are you confident or w/e. -> When you saw her, she made couple notes such as are you confident or needy. If you were confident when you met her then it conveys confidence.

Hope she will appear!!

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if not, have fun with your friends! Maybe meet new people.

very true! never thought about it that way. i was very confident and on a roll when i met her....it was one of those nights where I was quite literally in the zone. especially for her to admit i beat i her at her own game felt pretty dam good. she knows im confident.

thanks again

Since your other post had 0 replies, I removed it from the forum. In the future, please post only one thread per topic.

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1. nevermind assuming shes going to come. I dont like how you said you MUST come, seems like you need her to come? you an i both know you dont need her ....

2. call her out for sure.
for the maybe maybe text.

"haha okay loser, but we both know you wont find anything better to do that night"

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Hey, what's your intention with this girl who obviously gets it. She's being bitchy and cocky with you. Game's on. However, I'm wondering why you're going to a public gathering when it doesn't seem like you have closeness. Can't see it turning out too well to be honest.

Anyhow, if you're just in for the challenge with this girl and want to try it out at the club then here are a few of my fav things to say to a girl who is playing up:

So what am I going to get paid for babysitting tonight?
Wow, how does your boyfriend put up with you? She replies 'I don't have one'. You say 'Well that's probably for the best'.

Credit to JayWa for the teases. Good stuff.

Also, for your mindset. Remember this. You are the selector, not the selectee and Don't accept second class behaviour from women.

Good luck.

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My intention is to;

1. get to know her and determine whether she is up to my standards as a person
2. sleep with her if the above condition is met (i find it hard to pursue sex with a women that I dont generally like/respect)

And ya the game is on for sure.....you see Ive dealt with a lot of cocky chicks in the past, but this one really takes the cake.
We have common acquaintances, and i recently became friends with a good friend of hers, so there is closeness in that sense. I gamed her for over an hour the night we met, just us 2 alone, and she was lapping it up. Since i phoned her last week we do KINDA have closeness. She's just 80% cocky and 20% 'sweet'.

And ye i love those teasers...i know she doesnt have a bfriend so didnt need to use that one to find out if she did. the baby sitting one is good,its right up her alley as she is like a little spoilt brat! will do that one on her.
100% mate. Last night I actually said to her via text msg while she was out clubbing...'ok enough with the bitch shield, tell me something nice before i go to bed without swearing at me...'. Her response was...'ok without swearing...loser'. So thats what im dealing with, she just wont give in. Im sure an islolated session with her this weekend will hopefully help break through. If she carries on her shit im going to just ignore her until she changes her attitude.

What you think Ethan?

ye youre right, it COULD come across as a bit needy when i said she MUST come as its a text and tonality etc falls away. If I said that to her face to face or on the phone i would be able to pull it off. i think i was going for the Alpha male style of lead and controlling her movements. eg. like telling her what to wear before going out with her somewhere, women find this attractive, a man with a plan.

i like your number 2.